to read to get to know how this game is played. When you finish there, go back and read about 3 pages of this board. You will find many questions repeat every 5 or 6 days.

Good luck.

1) Read the self help center (find it at the upper right of the page near the red and white life preserver.)
2) Readback on this board, as many pages as you can. You will see lots of newbie topics asked and answered.
3) Get VIP membership here. It is the only way to really use the site for what it is meant for, and is a very small investment.
4) Consider joining P411 or one of the other verification services, or be prepared to give up personal info to providers to get screened
5) Read reviews and search reviews to find providers in your area that fit your needs as far as looks, rates, and services offerred  
6) Check out the TER ad board for your region.
7) Check out EROs and other ad malls but if you find someone you are interested in, check back here to seeif she is reviewed.
8) Choose a reputable well reviewed lady.
9) Contact her, get screened, set a date.
10) Show up, be clean and respectable, have the proper donation, have fun, leave on time.
11) Write a review.
11) Repeat steps 5-11 as many times as you can afford to.

Some do, and maybe if you are looking for just 'available' you will find it. Be careful.