I am a newbie who is about to have his first GFE experience tomorrow with a really hot provider that has good consistent reviews (7s,8s, and 9s).  Since I am not a VIP member, I do not know all of the services that she provides, and where her boundaries are.  Is it Ok to discuss that before we get naked?  Previously I've only gotten service from FBSM providers and was looking for advice from the more experienced hobbyists.  I've been holding out for a couple of days now, and I think I be able to get at least 2 MSOG.  We have been e-mailing each other, and have spoken on the phone once, although we did not discuss details, and seems like the perfect sweet girl to lose my hobbyist virginity to.  I will be calling her to get the directions, per her instructions, today.  So guys - any final advice?

Do not discuss any acts until she is ready. Sometime after you get to her place, she will ask something along the lines of what do you like or what do you want to do. At that point tell her just what you told us. Be honest and sincere. You should have no problems. If you try to discuss it before then she will think you are LE and you will have a terrible day.

Become a VIP member of TER.  Don't even consider hobbying without knowing what is highly likely to happen before you see a particular lady.  You never have to discuss anything illegal, or anything that, at the very least, will make the lady uncomfortable. It's the only way to hobby properly.

I see ladies and write reviews like their going out of style, so I don't remember what it costs, but I seem to remember it isn't all that much.  Do it!!

Jacksonlips

is to ease her mind into believing you are not LE (law enforcement). there are various ways to do that. it used to be you'd drop your pants and grab your d*ck, but that doesn't work anymore (cops can do that)

probably the classiest way to behave is to be a gent, leave the unsealed envelope on a dresser (make sure she sees this) and say something like "i think i'm in love" -- to a recording/surveillance tape this has all the makings of a "true" GFE encounter: you simply "fell in love" with this girl and everything was consensual between adults yada yada and the stuff on the dresser was donation for her time only

besides you being a psycho this is the #1 concern they have. the sooner you clear their heads of it, the sooner you too both can relax and enjoy the ride

Pay the $20 for VIP on TER