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Another take on verification services
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Verification services such as Date-Check and P411 are set-up to verify potential hobbyists and to minimize the risk that a provider will run into an unwanted situation.  What about the converse?  If a provider is listed on either one or both, does this provide some assurance to a hobbyist that she is legit?  For example, if a provider is listed on P411 and DC, and has been DC staff verified and seen by a member of DC in good-standing, does this carry any weight that she is at least a provider and not someone posing as a provider? I am assuming that providers wanting to be listed on these services undergo some screening or verification analagous to those of hobbyists. I realize that checking reviews here on TER is still important and provides added info regarding whether she is your up of tea.  I'd appreciate any thoughts on this issue.

Great question.  I would think your assumption is valid.  You would think that the verification services are careful who they list.  However, I do not have any information that can substantiate this.

I dont know about DateCheck since Im sadly not there, but as far as P411, the girls get checked out very clearly and safely. I had to wait a long while until I got the nessicary number of reviews from well established gentlemen in order to be able to sign up for P411. It was a bit of a pain, but extremely well worth it!!!

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There is NO way I would ever use any of the verification service. The info you submit has GOT to be retained somewhere, just waiting for your friendly LE agency to subpoena the hell out of it. And even if you can't be proscuted for participating in the verification process, I would hate to explain to my SO, other family, friends, and neighbors why my name was in the database.
  If you treat the ladies well, I have found that they will often vouch for you with additional providers, thus obviating the need for DC and the like. Of course, setting up the initial encouters can be difficult without exposing personal info...

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