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How do I ask if they offer a special request?
gaboy 1895 reads
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I am gonna be in Las Vegas in a few weeks for business and looking to finally take the plunge. I want a classier lady to come to my hotel and price is not my concern, what Im looking for is a unforgettable blow job start to finish, how do I go about asking that they will do that without being obvious or rude? Should I also let them know I am new? Thank you

mrfisher619 reads

Instead, go to the search review area of the review section and plug in Vegas, BBBJ, and any other feature you want and see what comes up.

Then read the reviews and make up a short list.

You can contact previous clients to ask more about the gal(s) in question too.

Do know that most gals have a time limit on how long they will do a BBBJ - it's seldom over 15-20 minutes.

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gaboy471 reads

I will do that thanks!

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perfectstorm504 reads

Mrfisher's suggestion to search reviews is your best bet. Make sure you have VIP to do the proper search.

You can also just post your request on the Vegas discussion board and a bunch of ladies will respond with "pick me" posts.

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gaboy458 reads

ha! yes and it didnt go so well!

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impposter478 reads

Is "gaboy" Gay Boy or guh-BOY or GAB-oy or ??? If they read it Gay Boy, they might steer clear.

But it's more likely no reviews and, maybe, no one knows you on the boards and thinks you might be LE

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JoeBanzai361 reads

How new are you? There are several posts here about getting started, It's not always easy until you have a provider/s referral. Read the newbie posts and read the reviews of the providers you are interested in MOST will tell you how their oral skills rate.

Good luck.

P.S. not trying to be critical, but why gaboy?

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ramc75329 reads

Your mistake was asking about a discounted rate. The rate is the rate and what you do during that time is up to you. The High-Class ladies in this biz don't offer discounts (not to newbies anyways) and definitely don't negotiate price. Since your a newbie to this follow the advice you've received on the Vegas board and here. Get VIP and search for blowjob (bareback or covered, your choice) and search for the finish your looking for (spit, facial, swallow, etc). You'll get a ton of great options (it IS Vegas) and then you can start to do your homework, finding out who is newbie friendly, what the screening requirements are, etc. Good luck and have fun!! P.S. Don't forget to write a review!

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JoeBanzai477 reads

I did not see your local post. NEVER ask for a discount, ALWAYS shower and have fresh breath.

If you had done some research you would know that these are three of the top reasons providers get annoyed with you.

Annoy enough providers and you are NOT going to have much fun.  

Hopefully you are not one of the guys who thinks this is like shopping at a store.  

I have doubts you are going to have a smooth time with tho "hobby" if you don't get the basics.

Good luck.

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clarence37396 reads

Posting a special request and then asking for a discount? C'mon.

 

Posted By: ramc75
Your mistake was asking about a discounted rate. The rate is the rate and what you do during that time is up to you. The High-Class ladies in this biz don't offer discounts (not to newbies anyways) and definitely don't negotiate price. Since your a newbie to this follow the advice you've received on the Vegas board and here. Get VIP and search for blowjob (bareback or covered, your choice) and search for the finish your looking for (spit, facial, swallow, etc). You'll get a ton of great options (it IS Vegas) and then you can start to do your homework, finding out who is newbie friendly, what the screening requirements are, etc. Good luck and have fun!! P.S. Don't forget to write a review!

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gaboy398 reads

ga for Georgia, it is close to gay, didn't think that through......
Don't know who originally misread my post but I requested a GFE and WANTING to pay full price, I have no issue with the full rate, my concern was finding a good provider who can keep me at ease due to my lack of experience. I'm sure I will be very nervous . Thanks for the responses

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perfectstorm370 reads

And I had your intentions right. Not sure how they got misread by others. It didn't seem confusing or ambiguous to me.  
I also didn't see anything classless or disrespectful if the ladies in your post. Anyway the important thing is you are taking all the feedback well, and you have a good attitude. I think you will do well in this hobby.:)
Good luck in finding what you seek. Keep up with the search, and throw another post up on the "In Search Of" board, for shits and giggles.

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perfectstorm421 reads

Damn now that I look, I see you posted on the newbie board, the ISO board, and the Vegas board around the same time this morning. You're lucky TER didn't pull your posts for spamming the boards! They do have a rule about that. :)

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gaboy395 reads

Thank you for the positive feedback, Although I have spent months reviewing the boards I guess I was looking for specific help and have not found it on my own, I am a VIP member I and done the searches but have not found the answers, The last thing I want is to assume the provider is good with my requests and get put into a situation where it is awkward. Thank you again

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clarence37503 reads

you have to take your chances. There's no way to really search for a woman who enjoys giving 60 minute blowjobs; christ, my jaw gets sore if I chew a stick of gum for more than 10 minutes!

Probably the best way to approach is to first search for the girls who do bbbj. Make your short list based on looks, price point, and any other criteria you have, and then read those reviews carefully to see if any descriptions highlight the bj. When you finally contact the provider, you know that you can't ask about specific acts, but some providers do "talk" more than others, and you can certainly drop some hints - "I hope you don't mind a lazy guy! I just love to lay back and enjoy" or something like that might be enough of a hint to her that you want her to do most of the work :-)

And of course, once you get into the room, take care of business, and drop your trousers, you can say anything you want. The worst thing that's going to happen is that you get a little less bj than you wanted, and a lot of good sex, right?

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perfectstorm463 reads

And Clarence and Joe, I'm surprised at you guys jumping on the bandwagon yet admitting you never even saw the post.

Gaboy's post on the Vegas board said he is willing to pay gfe rate but does not want to go all the way. He just wanted a bj. How is that asking for a discount. I take that to mean he wants to pay full price but does not want full service. Frankly I am surprised at the negative responses he got. I think the first lady that replied to him probably read it wrong just like ramc75 here, and then everyone jumped on her bandwagon.  

Normally on the Vegas board, when someone posts an ISO, there are a bunch of ladies throwing themselves at the poster, with "pick me" posts, no matter if he is a newbie, an alias, or what. That is the only reason I suggested he post there (even though I found he actually posted there hours before I told him to). Normally I wouldn't recommend something like that to a newbie. The best bet is still to search and read reviews (with VIP) and select ladies that way, but I figured his post on the Vegas board might give him some options and maybe shortcuts while he was searching.

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clarence37438 reads

I didn't know that this poor fellow had been stomped on over there.
But I'm not apologizing. I was just responding to the poster above me who said he was asking for a discount along with a special service. I wasn't nasty, and I didn't stomp on him. In fact, my comment was not even specifically directed at him, but at the act of asking for a special service and a discount at the same time. If he didn't DO it, then there's no reason for him to be wounded.

Also, as was pointed out - since his post was modified before we all got to it, maybe the wording of the original post DID imply he was looking for a discount. I don't know, I don't really care.

Gaboy, I got no problem with you and I wish you luck. Ignore the haters; just don't ask for discounts on these boards :D

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JoeBanzai331 reads

I never accused him of asking for a discount. If you reread my post I said "NEVER ask for a discount" and added he should have good hygiene as well. From day one these are the two things that I have read over and over again that the ladies find important.

I was trying to HELP him, I didn't jump on any "bandwagon".

Had gaboy done some homework, he would know that no one is required to "go all the way" and offering to pay the full donation would tend to be a red flag for some providers. Their donations are for time (for the most part) so offering to pay full price is kind of silly, it's the price.....................that's what you pay. Newbie mistake.

gaboy, I get your "handle" now makes perfect sense.

I will restate my advice to you; read reviews and the self help information, it will save you a lot of time. Read the past posts on the subject, there are A LOT of them. Finally, asking for a discount or showing up unclean are big turn-offs that will hurt your chances at getting "dates".

 

Posted By: perfectstorm
And Clarence and Joe, I'm surprised at you guys jumping on the bandwagon yet admitting you never even saw the post.  
   
 Gaboy's post on the Vegas board said he is willing to pay gfe rate but does not want to go all the way. He just wanted a bj. How is that asking for a discount. I take that to mean he wants to pay full price but does not want full service. Frankly I am surprised at the negative responses he got. I think the first lady that replied to him probably read it wrong just like ramc75 here, and then everyone jumped on her bandwagon.  
   
 Normally on the Vegas board, when someone posts an ISO, there are a bunch of ladies throwing themselves at the poster, with "pick me" posts, no matter if he is a newbie, an alias, or what. That is the only reason I suggested he post there (even though I found he actually posted there hours before I told him to). Normally I wouldn't recommend something like that to a newbie. The best bet is still to search and read reviews (with VIP) and select ladies that way, but I figured his post on the Vegas board might give him some options and maybe shortcuts while he was searching.

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gaboy325 reads

Thanks everyone for the response, Im learning so any grace would be appreciated, just to be clear I never asked for a discount nor would I want that, I want a girlfriend experience but with limitations. Yes I have read hundreds of reviews but everyone is "all the way". sorry for the confusion.

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FlaSailorRon365 reads

But just mention full gfe not necessary.

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