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jedi0420 1347 reads
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Good morning to all. So I am about to commit to a meeting next week and had some questions. I came across a listing on EROS and saw an ad with some stunning pics. Before I take the plunge, I wanted to get some feedback. How trustworthy is EROS? There are no reviews that I could find of her, and the face is blurred ( no biggie) and was told that if I was not happy with her appearance, I can cancel at that time for no fee. Now I really dont want to deal with that noise/awkwardness and time is limited,  so wanted to see what some veterans would reccomend. Does eros pic verify? I have heard mixed stories about that. Thanks to all who will and have helped me before.

datytodayie914 reads

I've pretty much decided that no references=no way.

With all the fantastic, non face-blurred, well reviewed providers in your area why would you bother with this potential disaster?

Think with your gray matter and not the purple helmet.

Yes you can just walk away but it is extraordinarily awkward.  "I find you unacceptable as a paid intimacy partner".  As bad as I felt, I can only imagine how bad she felt.  Of course you can always pay for something you don't want in that situation.  I did still pay her for her time, but that is just me.

Concur with previous reply.  I know you are seeing something that looks "so right" for you but go for something certain or ask her to send you a pic.

Menu on the left, second board down.  Or just click the link.

First of all, Eros will take anyone's money and there is absolutely no verification on photos or service. For example, there is another girl who advertises on the Eros-Tampa page. Her name is Patience. Well, that is her name today. She has had 10 different names over the past 5 years. Same photos though. Time and again I meet with clients who tell me that she came over, stole the money and ran out the door. She even left her empty purse to assure them she would be right back. Yet Eros continues to take her $300 a month in advertising.
How many times does it have to be said?
1. If she does not have her own website do not see her.
2. If she is not listed on a verification site do not see her. (Preferred-411, Date-Check)
3. If she does not have any reviews do not see her.
Even girls who prefer not to have reviews will have a way to verify them. Such as they will have a website with reciprocal links to other girls they know or they will join an active discussion group  where they can build their reputation.
Just my 2 cents, but you will probably do it anyway. Please PM me afterwards and let me know how it went.
Cheers!

jedi0420589 reads

Just wanted to thank you all for the help. I will go to the NEWBIE board from now on, when it is not down. Didnt know how offended people would be because a post was in the wrong forum/section as I posted this in GENERAL DISCUSSION. Though  it would take less time to just scroll past the post then for you to reply with the remarks. Was not sure that the rules here are enforced like fight club. I have nothing but respect for everyone who has posted, helped, and is a veteran/contributer to the board so I will take the hits on this one. I will not be taking a chance with this lady and will start posting my reviews in the future.

Admin must have moved this thread.  I am very familiar with the girl named Patience, and you're right she has had a bunch of aliases using the same pictures.  And for what reason I do not understand, with all her ripoff reviews, some guys will still book time with her.  Your advice to jedi0420 was spot on, thanks for posting.

Guys have to do research just as ladies have to screen.  Jedi0420, you need to read the self help center and start thinking with the big head.  If this gal has no reviews, blurred face notwithstanding, move on.  She has no reviews and expects guys to pay $500 for an hour?????  Puhleeze......

Swim

I'm going to guess this is a tgtbt situation.

It's still a crap shoot to see a gal without references, especially if all she has is this EROS ad.

if and when a phone number is available.  It brings up a lot of other sites where there are bigger and better pics often or other pics often.  Sometimes Backpage images or Backpagesluts helps as well.  Can you use the word slut here London?

have been stolen, or reported by someone that they are not the user's photos. Other than that, not they are not the pic police. Reviews are your best bet, so get vip and carry on. There is not site that is going to guarantee you that photos are accurate, so you are better off seeing well reviewed providers to at least know she is legit. That still won't say that you will find her attractive, but at least you will know an idea of what she looks like and how she performs.

Posted By: jedi0420
Good morning to all. So I am about to commit to a meeting next week and had some questions. I came across a listing on EROS and saw an ad with some stunning pics. Before I take the plunge, I wanted to get some feedback. How trustworthy is EROS? There are no reviews that I could find of her, and the face is blurred ( no biggie) and was told that if I was not happy with her appearance, I can cancel at that time for no fee. Now I really dont want to deal with that noise/awkwardness and time is limited,  so wanted to see what some veterans would reccomend. Does eros pic verify? I have heard mixed stories about that. Thanks to all who will and have helped me before.

Eros will also verify if the person pictured is (or appears to be) under 21, but that's just to cover their own ass.

Here's the original source for that picture, she is not an escort.  (at least I seriously doubt it, why would she risk her carreer by pasting her pic all over the place as an escort?)

http://dreamperceptions.wordpress.com/

jedi0420568 reads

Wow....I so am a newbie. Very impressed with all the detective work and very thankful. I have taken all your advice and am seeing a well reviewed person instead. TGTBT is indeed that. Review to follow next week. Thanks again to all!

Posted By: Naomi_Sweets
Here's the original source for that picture, she is not an escort.  (at least I seriously doubt it, why would she risk her carreer by pasting her pic all over the place as an escort?)

http://dreamperceptions.wordpress.com/

Newbies should see well reviewer providers.  As a newbie, have you read & then reread all of the self help section (by the life saver)?
The newbie board has a wealth of information...  and it oly costs your time...  to scroll back ^& read  until you can answer every question yourself.  
EVERY ad site has good providers & scammers.  You must lear to read the review profiles for "real pictures", "recent pictures", "delivered services as promised".   Then you need VIP to read the details to see if she really offers what you want.  
You must research every proscpect yourself.  We are not all looking for the exact same thing.

recognize them in person, including providers that are pretty decent looking in person for whatever reasons.  This is a large percentage.

I used  watch Eros for years.  Very few that advertise there have I been able to find any reviews on.  The exception is for cash and dash pros.  I also tend to see way to high of rates there.  I would not use eros for anything.  I stopped even looking at the site.   This site is good for established providers and experienced hobbiests but it is hard on newbies and does not promote the idea of new talent very well.  While you are new It would be nice if they did not jump down your throat.  I would not see an eros only provider under any circumstance.  New talent is always needed but be careful and get some of basics down prior to TOFTT.

I contacted April Hobbs, the model in the Eros ad. She was very grateful to be notified that someone was using her photos without her consent.  She has notified Eros and has gotten her stolen pictures removed. The escort "Devon Brooks is now using someone else's photos. Anyone know who those are?

Great Job Heather!........ I miss you Heather!..... :(

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