It is not necessary to give your personal info. to a provider directly, but you will have to give it to someone. My best suggestion is to join preferred411, which is based out of Canada, and trust me when I tell you, Gina wants nothing to do with your info. other than to use it for screening. Any provider dumb enough to take your word that you are not a cop or a nut job, is just that...DUMB, and do you really want to put your d*ck in someone like that? Just saying.

Please don't be naive enough to suggest that you "meet for coffee" because that proves nothing. If either of you is a cop, the arrest will take place in ANY location you show up to. That is all they need to bust you...intent, with no questions asked. Sure, it may never be a conviction, but you will spend the night in jail with your photo on police beat BEFORE they can prove you did a thing.


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Ok you don't want to give up info for screening, but what will happen to your job when you get popped by a c o p in a sting because they surely don't screen.  They answer the phone and say come right over.  

So no screening equals dumb hooker with no regard for her own personal safety much less yours or c o p

Screening looks better and better to me.

you are going to have to give up SOME personal information at least once.
Everyone has to start somewhere and you'll be glad once you get started and get the ball rolling.

Whatever you do, don't settle for any provider.
Your very first time should be special and with someone who is experienced and has been in the business for awhile.

I suggest booking at least two hours since it's going to be your very first time.. ever.
You don't want it to feel like a dream.

Anyways, if you're not willing to give up any information at all, you might have to settle for an unreliable provider who doesn't screen. She'll likely not be interested in being a reference for you if she doesn't even screen her own clients. And of course, the time may not be too special.

Your post reminds be quite a bit about my current situation. Newbie hobbyist looking to get into the scene. No luck here with relationships either Whenever I was interested in a girl something stupid happened and I said fuck it. Ive been seeking a 2 hour appointment or so. Hoping my provider can teach me some things in bed, but I'm also very much looking forward to it as a bit of a date.

The main problem for you is that most verification sites require proof of employment. If you're not verified generally providers will require that also. I was just recently RS2K verified and that was sort of the doorway to talking to the provider I've wanted to see. I think it made her feel at ease in regards to talking about an appointment. My verification didn't require too much information. I explained my self employed status and provided relevant info and also a photo of a payment directed to me and hat was good.  Another thing to consider is that you're probably going to have to give employment info at least once. Keep things more private for yourseld and share your details with a verification service rather than multiple providers.

If it is totally not an option... try telling a bit about yourself and work with your provider choices about how to work it out. Before I was verified one provider mentioned her other verification method. She required a photo id with your name and date also included. A possible option.

Anyway, good luck mate. There are some nice friendly people here more and willing to help you.

When dudes get on here and say they refuse to share screening info, that's kind of irritating.  Look, I know this is the newbie board and we're not supposed to flame, but this attitude screams, "I'm WAY too important to share my screening info, unlike the rest of your poor stupid slobs who did go through the screening process."  

Seriously, man, you can't have your cake and eat it too.  If you want to play this game, you gotta play by the rules and that means you have to provide the necessary screening info. It's understandable that you don't want to share your personal info with a bunch of providers, so do as others have said, and join a verification service such as preferred411, RS2K or datecheck.  Otherwise, don't be too upset when no reputable provider will see you.

Everyone needs to start somewhere!

Try becoming a member of a few screening sites, like date-check, Roomservice2000, or preferred411!

If not post here in the ISO section for newbie friendly providers in your area.  If I were you I would write a review of the 1st provider I see here on TER & ask her to whitelist you here too!

Happy hobbying!