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An Etiquette Question
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Hypothetical:
I've written to a provider to request an appointment.
She verifies my references and agrees to meet me.
At this point is it okay for me to write back to her and to state my session preferences in direct terms, or must I wait until I meet her face-to-face?
I ask this question because my preferences require some advance planning by the provider, such as clothing selection, etc. I also need to know if she's willing to do what I ask of her. I'd hate to arrive at her place only to be told, "No." That would be a bummer.

If you've been verified by her it is alright to ask for a clothing request. However, I would still not go direct and ask for any graphic things...such as BBBJ or CIM.

Clothing requests should be fine, such as asking her to dress like Pippi Longstockings, complete with braids.

Sexual services are always a no-no for first timers, and generally best not put in writing, or on the internet. You should be comfortable with the research you did - ahem. If you did no research this is called TOFTT and you get what you get.

Sometimes even massage is a problem as some districts have strict codes about license requirements for massage.

If you have specific preferences and have already screened it does not hurt to ask the lady if she has an issue with your preferences.Some might answer and some will never discuss it just all depends on the lady and what she is comfortable with.I would not suggest waiting until face to face especially if your preferences require preparation to ask she might not have ample enough time to prepare.

of the review and the profile. Now every date has a certain "ymmv" aspect to it. If you don't have VIP, I strongly recommend you spend the $ and get it. As the saying goes, one bad date usually costs more than annual vip, so don't be a cheapskate. Good luck.

Agreed!  By the time I arrive for a session with a new gal I already have read enough reviews to know what she does and does not do.  As for clothes, once I"m verified and the session is booked I simply ask in an e-mail, "when would you be comfortable receiving a clothing request?"  In every case they say "ask away."  If you have an elaborate request like this it's an argument for booking early so she can be sure to pack what's needed.

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