A direct quote from a lady,i was thinking about seeing!
Quote from her web-site,"Do not ever ask me to do things.I find this not only moronic,but offensive."
Needless to say,i decided not to see her.I'm the one who works my ass off to fill the white envelope,,And i can't ask for a specific request?
WTF?????

Like the scarecrow in the Wizard of Oz maybe?
I try to help newbies, but you are NOT new, just plain dumb. I don't know how you get dressed in the morning without a mishap?!  

What's the harm of me asking,if i can fuck her between the toes???,,LOL!
Her point was,"It ruins the mood",well fuck that,i'm paying her for a certain mood!

I can understand when a lady uses words like "dangerous" or "illegal" in her disclaimer as she is discouraging things like bare-back sex or drugs but "moronic and offensive" is just too wide open for me. A gal's website is supposed to tell us a little something about her and a statement like that has "smart-ass" written all over it.

I really don't see a problem with a client asking me to do something during our session, otherwise how do we know what you like or dislike. I can understand not discussing specific acts before our first session or if a client asks me to do something that I have specifcally told him I don't do.
I would much prefer a client to let me know what he enjoys during a session than to go away unsatisfied.

They are uncertain of how they will perform something that they are not familiar with, so want to stick to the tried and true.

I can see their point of view, but they do themselves a disservice by not adapting to the client.

Don't ask her to kiss a little longer? Don't ask her to lightly stroke you to increase arousal? Don't ask her to apply the condom?  Don't ask her to change positions?  Don't ask her to finish you by hand?

Crazy!