Newbie - FAQ
Hi all
I'm a newbie here to say the least,haha. After searching thru all the lingo offered here I am wondering if alot of these are common place (ie:snowballs,BB,NQNS) in general? Having only done covered,I am wondering how safe this actually is,if not for me for the providers in general? I'm really wanting to try this but am scared to death of STD's. I contacted a provider on the snowballs,but was told I would need to do some prerequisites for this. Having no clue what she meant I just cancelled,embarresed. If anyone (male or female) could honestly answer my question I would appreciate it. Thanks
There are a lot of services provided by these ladies, some are willing to "go that extra mile" while some aren't. The key is communication. Any escort worth your time will work with you. Make her feel comfortable first and then explain what you want. Remember, these are (for the most part 
ladies, so most don't take kindly to rude and uncooth remarks. Don't worry about feeling embarssed. If ya don't understand, ask. I'm sure she'll explain... and if she doesn't, she ani't worth your time OR money. As for Bare Back or covered... well, it's all on you. There aren't on regulation for testing that anyone has to fallow except for the bunny ranch in Nevada. But remember she is also taking a risk as well. Bring it up and if she wants you to get a test and you got the time... what a little bit of piece of mind? Or, ask her is she has had one recently. in the end, it's really about communication. If you don't ask, you'll never know. Each lady is different.
Thanks guys for your responses. I've decided to continue to play it safe and not take any extra added risks. Personally after reading thru hours of past threads,I see this question has came up alot. I'm actually amazed at some of the answers given:taking a shower directly afterwards,rinsing with mouthwash,rubbing alcohol,hand sanitizer,ect.. I can't believe people are actually this gullable to think these things work in this day and age!?! Kinda reminds me of the old wives tales of douching with a soda,saving you from pregnancy,haha!!! After much reasearch on this issue I think it's just not worth the risk for me. Even if you are tested every few months and so is your provider (as many swear by here) how safe can it be with someone doing it with at the very least 3+ men per day and vice-vers with the hobbist in a 3 month span??? Not to mention diseases of the throat,HPV,herpes,HIV,ect.which can go longer without detection. Plus we all know not everyone tells the truth,wether their putting themselves or others at risk,regardless of the cost. The most intresting thing I did learn is this little tidbit- http://www.molokosynthemesc.com/risks.exe?cmd=risk&whichone=STD
even in the case of tongue rings this is possible.Wow I learn something new every day,haha. Like I said I've only did covered,but I thought I'd add the link for others who seem more living in denial than myself on uncovered love of any kind. For me,the GFE always meant she treated me extra special and enjoyed my company,I had no clue some considered it to be BBBJ,or other UC acts? Yet,like I said I'm very new to this,so I thought I'd ask. Thanks again for all responses,HOBBING SAFE FOR LIFE