1, try a selection of condoms from a place like Condomania and bring the ones that feel best. I used to use Japanese condoms such as Kimono but they were too tight, resulting in some loss of sensation... super tight may be good in a woman but bad in a condom...

2, don't bring massage OIL, it weakens condoms, gets everything greasy, and isn't so good on the skin... baby oil is the absolute worst. If you want good sensation, you MUST use a silicone lube, like Wet Classic. Yes, it is a clear liquid like an oil, but it feels like velvet, not like grease, and it is condom safe. A hand job with Wet is about 1000% more sensuous than a hand job with baby oil.

3, a small bottle of Purell alcohol based sanitizer lotion. Wipe you hands down before as a courtesy to the girl, and she'll probably let you roam more 'cause you won't be likely to give her infections, and wipe you hands and genital region down afterwards for obvious reasons. Keep the bottle handy if the action gets hot, 'cause many a time a thumb goes in the anus, and as soo as you remove it you want to sanitize before that thumb goes elsewhere. Get a good smooth rhythm with this and it won't interrupt anything.

You'll get a lot more play because you'll be perceived as responsible and having your head together...

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