That is considered shouting, bad manners.  To get verified, there are a few ways.  One is to see a provider and have her give you a Whitelist referral here, and/or use her as a reference for your next visit.  If you have not seen anyone yet, search for newbie providers in your area.  The other is to join one of the verification sites, DateCheck, Preferred411, or Roomservice2000.

To see your first provider, you might have to supply your real name, and your work info, so she can verify that you really work there.  They will usually call your work number, make up some story, and ask for you.  When the answerer says, just a minute, often times they will just hang up, knowing that you really do work there.  Just you saying in a post that you are not a cop, is not good enough.  A cop would say that, they are not going to post here and say "I'm a cop, see me"......

Swim

Do you really expect just because you say "I am not a cop" we will believe you?  Sounds kind of lame.  I as a provider have two major things I care about #1) My safety #2) Showing you one hell of a good time.  Just like you would not invite a stranger into your home, neither will I.  If someone without provider references is willing to share some personal info, - then I am willing to work with you.  

Best wishes for many happy endings....
Madison