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All the good providers I have been with asked me
perfectstorm 19 Reviews 724 reads
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What I like or how I like it. etc. I think any good provider will do that. She wants to make you happy. If she doesn't ask, then of course, you should tell her what you like. But no yoou don't lay it all out before the session starts. that may get you kicked out the door. But once you get started and are getting into it, most of them appreciate suggestions. We pay them for a lot of things but not to be mind readers.  I also ask them to tell me what they like when I return the favor.

thisisalloneword12342419 reads

I generally liked to be kissed on the neck, receive my BJ in 69 position . I also like the BJ very slow . I hate the forceful back and forth motion some tend to do.. So do I lay this all out before the session starts, or just go along with what the provider is accustomed to?

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nahtynikkey1559 reads

If you like something in particular, then speak up and say so. I hate it when someone has a preference for something, doesn't say a word & then later puts in a review or something, "I wish she had done xyz". We're not mind readers, so you need to speak up.

As far as laying it out before the session starts, I wouldn't do that, as that may put some on edge. But, when the action starts & you find her being too forceful w/the bj, just ask her to slow down, that you prefer it that way.

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hiddenhills512 reads

I couldn't have said it any better than NN. As a provider once said to me "it's all about you sweetie" And boy was she right.  Escorts are  not mind readers, and the great providers are more than willing to adapt to what you like and how you like it. If you like things a certain way tell her, but not all in the beginning. Let the date unfold and then during the date tell her what all the things you like. Remember she's there for you. Enjoy.

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kendradc20111022 reads

is my suggestion. If you don't share what you like while we're together then we won't ever know. We have no problem giving you the experience you are wanting unless it crosses the boundaries we set for ourselves.

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guybeingaguy849 reads

I like that " phrase " a closed mouth doesn't get fed " ! I'm going to insert that in my memory bank .

Call me old fashioned in my mindset . Call me a gentleman - I'm fine with that !
For my entire life I was taught to treat w lady with kindness and respect . It's how it should be ........
Hard to teach a dog new tricks .
BUT !!!! ..........
I have been getting SLOWLY better at it , still struggle though . The lady makes a hHUGE difference !!  Lets say you think with the little head, and she is just drop dead geourgeous and your dick can't wait to be serviced . I tend to just go with the flow as ANYTHING this fine ass lady does is fine with me . I'm so turned on all else goes out the window and I'm fuckin' HORNY - she can't touch my dick soon enough !!!

NOW , find a lady that for whatever reason you two just " click " , you know the feeling . Conversation is great , you are LESS nervous , she is just a realxed,  easy going person that just make time melt away.
For me , it becomes so much more easy to either " tell " her or guide her as to what I like . Sometimes I will read them as being submissive - COOL, they usually enjoy for you to show your passion , and steer that ship the way you like it . It turns them on to see the overwhelming passion they are causing !!! Be a gentleman but confident at the same time .
In beteewn ladies just keep telling yourself that you are a stud , a man , a confident man , a sexual god . NONE of us are , but that mindset makes me feel more confident and that in turn makes me speak up a little more .
AND YES ......The best providers REALLY do want to please you - it builds thier confidence and sexuallity to KNOW they can make you CRAZY :)
Lastly - they are not mind readers and the GOOD ones really are there 100% for us ! Takes some searching but what I have written will come to light the moment you find her .

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perfectstorm725 reads

What I like or how I like it. etc. I think any good provider will do that. She wants to make you happy. If she doesn't ask, then of course, you should tell her what you like. But no yoou don't lay it all out before the session starts. that may get you kicked out the door. But once you get started and are getting into it, most of them appreciate suggestions. We pay them for a lot of things but not to be mind readers.  I also ask them to tell me what they like when I return the favor.

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HeathersLuv4u977 reads

When most of you fellas show up, yall have this wall-eyed look, lost all sense of reality and just outta ya mind..lol (it's cure as hell)...a grls gotta do what a girls gotta do to get things going right..

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keystonekid673 reads

the lady lead.

Most of the time I enjoy letting the lady take the lead because I don't like scripted dates. For me, it is more enjoyable to go with the flow.

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