ok part of the experience for me is that the provider has a good time too.  I am fairly standard looking, not ugly but lets just say I won't be selling Calvin Klein underwear anytime soon.  So for the providers who have a liking for what they do, when you get a client who is clean but heavier than maybe normal(hint 5'11" 230lbs) are the providers GENERALY indifferent or does a thought of "i hope this appointment doesn't go into overtime", pop into the head?

also 5'11" and 230 and have never had a problem with anyone ... be yourself, be polite, have fun, and stop thinking so much, enjoy ..

i'm 5'11" and 190lbs ... and i just happen to know that the ideal body weight for that height (and age range 30-50) is 175-180lbs, so you're only 45lbs "over-weight"

ask the girls sometimes about their johns and you'd be amazed ... i've heard stories of them working rather obese hobbyists (300-400lbs)

i'm willing to bet the "average" hobbyist out there is at least (AT LEAST) 20-25 lbs over-weight!

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btw, i hope it's clear to you, that i'm NOT a provider, just a hobbyist like you!  LOL



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I like a man with a little extra weight.  To me it just shows that he appreciates the good things in life.

I prefer to think of it as living well.

I would be happy with 5'11" and 230 lbs.  I'm not a skinny guy either but haven't found it to be a major stumbling block (I hope the ladies I have seen would agree though).

In every shape, size, color, flavor. MMmmmm...
As long as a gentleman is clean, polite, and happy to be with me, I treat him like my very own Adonis!
Happy Hobbying!
XOXO Holly