These have been collected from these boards... I thank the members who have shared their mis-adventures. This is not to condem the ladies who deliver as promised but to give warning of some of the known scams so they may be avoided.
Bait & Switch... ads with pictures not her own or seriously out of date or sends another lesser provider. (Images on ads can be searched to see if they are stolen internet photos)
Runner or 'cash & dash' Grabs the cash & bolts for the door.
Runner or 'take off' After recieving the cash, announces she left the condoms in the car, goes out to get them & runs. (Suggest retaining the cash if she neds to leave.)
Runner After recieving cash, does not have condoms, you drive her to the store, she runs... (suggest retaining the donation, have a small bill if she needs cash for purchase) There is something to be said for having a sealed 3 pack of condums to shoot down such scams.
Runner After recieving cash, does not have condoms, you drive her to the store, you wait outside, she tells the clerk a story (coersion, pressure etc) is let out another door... she runs... with your donation. The cops show up! (Retain the donation... you don't know her!)
She promises/implies services which are withdrawn from menu after payment. (This refers mainly to large scale changes)
Another variation is rather than deliver services, she does a dance or shows lingerie... when you try to move to the main course, she claims she doesn't do that. "What kind of a girl do you think I am?"
The switchero First review BBBJ, later customers CBJ. (Read reviews)
Clocks set ahead: so you don't get your time allotment.
Reviewed: Link to TER or other reviews. Take the time to read the reviews. Existance of reviews does not mean they are good reviews! We've seen ads with links to horrible reviews! I guess they were counting on guys not checking.
Up sell: She collects payment & suddenly services are extra cost. (Read reviews)
The Banker: Asks for cash advances or loans, sometimes to be worked off or repaid in cash... then refuses your calls or disappears. (Note: Some experienced hobbiests choose to take these chances & advise never loan money you can't afford to lose or just gift outright.)
The Deposit Ripoff: There are exceptions where it might make sense to pay a deposit... like travel expenses or a large time block reserved (over night, weekend, an extended night of dinner & dancing) where she is turning away others to accomidate you. But in general, deposits leave you open to be ripped off. You pay the deposit & she suddenly becomes hard to reach or ignores you all
together. There's no way to force compliance. Remember, you can't legally contract for an illegal act.
Thief: When you are not looking, items or cash disappear.
Scout: After appointment your residence is burlarized. Sometimes doors or windows become unlocked during the appontment.
Blackmail The provider finds out too much personal information about you, and threatens to post or give out your information to who ever (job, media, family) in exchange for hush money. Not a good idea to pay extortion. Blackmail / extortion are felonies. It is suggested you get legal help before going to the authorities.
Gorilla: She seems legit, you are getting "comfortable" and all of a sudden some big ape is pounding on the door or busting down the door and you just want to get out of there with your life.
Mugging: The girl or her thug block your exit and you aren't allowed to leave unless you give them all the money you have in your possession.
Or the ones where she is stalling for time, you may be undressed but she still has her clothes on, she is doing a little dance, strip tease, etc, mostly dressed. Outside one of her friends is breaking in your car and stealing anything and everything they can find of value. The session doesn't actually happen, she's stalled long enough that you pretty much know you've been screwed, you go back outside to find your car's been broken into and she acts like she knows nothing about it. (I read a review on another site where this is standard MO at this girl's incall).
I also read a review where the girl took the money and then went to the bathroom and locked the door, and didn't come out - the guy waited 4 hrs and she did not come out. (said she had a computer and phone in bathroom with her, btw).
She gets on the phone with her "agency" & asks specific questions about sex acts & money. You invite her to leave & there are no hooker refunds. (Probably done to freak out a newbie Re: Possible LE sting)
Scammers are very slick... they have the move all planned & can even be out the door before you can protest. There are some who should be in the Olympics... track team! Many of the scams work best (against us) on out-calls to your home or hotel room. Place the donation well into the
bedroom, not near the door!
I should caution that it's generally illegal to physically lock someone in or physically restrain them... think kidnapping or unlawful restraint charges... still we don't have to make ourselves look like an easy mark! This is supposed to be FUN! Again, well reviewed providers are the best bet for newbies & the risk adverse