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dassj 2681 reads
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Hi!
I'm new here and though I'm sure many of these questions have been answered, I was hoping someone would be kind enough to answer them again.

1) I have never been to a provider, but I really want to. I'm just worried about confidentiality. I don't want my SO or family/friends finding out. Is this a big risk?

2) What exactly is a M&G? I think I would be more comfortable meeting some providers there than just cold calling randomly.

3) I live in NYC. Should I not do this here? Should I wait till I go on a business trip?

4) Finally, I am very worried about LE. Should I be? Is there any part of this that is legal that maybe I should do first like a massage (with a happy ending of course ;))

Thanks for listening. I'm happy I found this site because it has a ton of information that I didn't know how to find anywhere else.

Cherry_Girl1061 reads

1) There is always a chance of someone finding out, but if you're discreet and use commone sense, you should be ok

2)M&G = Meet $ Greet, some charge, some don't but either way it's a non sexual meeting to test the waters

3)NYC is large enough that as long as you're not seeing someone down the block from your home, you should be ok

4)Research your girls until you have more mileage under your belt. Look for someone who has at least a few reviews and if she wants to talk too specifically about money and what is expected, don't see her.

Use your head, you should be ok. Also, make sure that she knows that it's your first time. We're usually a lot more gentle on virgins, lol

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MissMilani1483 reads

I know there are several newbie info threads board which have this and much much more information.  

Since you asked so nicely I'll give you the answers I have to the best of my knowledge.

1) Reputable providers will not let this happen. They're real people that do not want their personal business advertised either.

2) First, do NOT cold call providers randomly.  Read reviews.  Second, check your local boards.  M&G are held periodically.

3) That is entirely up to you.

4) It is never illegal to sell time. Plumbers do it, Bookkeepers do it, and Therapists do it- what IS illegal is selling sexual favors.

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maturebridgette1378 reads

you have TER  mail

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keystonekid1148 reads

If you see well reviewed ladies (do a search here and this will be explained in more detail) your odds of having a good time increase greatly.  Get VIP so you can read the reviews to get an idea of the type of session the provider of your choice offers.
1) Not will a well-reviewed provider
2) It will be difficult to get invited to a M & G without any prior experience in this hobby.
3) Either way, NYC is a big place but there is always a chance you could bump into someone you know
4) See answer to 1).

Good luck.

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swimtrekr1383 reads

Relax and enjoy.  Just be sure to do your research.  That is, make sure she has plenty of reviews by reviewers with plenty of reviews.  LE is always a concern, but if you do your research, you should have no problems.  

If we all worried about LE as much as some of you noobs do, we would never get laid again.  Get VIP and if you need to, PM some of the guys who reviewed a girl you are interested in.

Swim

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dassj1089 reads

Thanks for all your replies.

I think I found an NYC girl I'd really like to meet and she has TONS of reviews.

I'm sure I'll be really nervous, but that may add to the fun.

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MassGuy791104 reads

Good Luck and please post a review.

New to the game as well.  Best advice get a VIP and see a reputable provider. I corresponded with my first provicer and explained alot of my newbie fears and my first meeting was very enjoyable.   Request a whitelist and let your adventure begin.  Be discreet and respectful and you will be fine.  NYC has a plethora of providers so the odds are you should be able to find someone who doesnt know you.  As far as personal info I was nervous providing this at first, but its a trade off.  Look at is from the providers perspective and you will understand why its needed.  If you cant or wont provide screening info then try the massage places or the SW's good luck

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dassj760 reads

Thanks.

Can you tell me a bit about your experience? Do providers call your workplace to find out if you work there?

What's a whitelist?

What's the difference with massage places?

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