School me.

First of all, I'm only 20 years old. How many providers are willing to roll with a guy that young? I see as looking for "respectful gentlemen." Well, I'm respectful to a fault - but my age might preclude me from being considered a "gentlemen."

Secondly, how does this business work, basically? I've read enough accounts here to know who a real escort is, but I don't know what terms like "two call system" mean and such.

I have reasons for seeking out the comforts of an escort at this time, but I'd rather avoid that subject matter - at least for now.

many girls never even asked me for my age actually. (I'm in my 30s and have a bunch of references, preferred 411 which shows my age and a short bio,  so maybe that's why). just see the girls who are OK with your age,  there are plenty of them.  

two call system is basically a way to get the next client ready at the location without giving full details right away. first call she gives you the address and when you get to the location,  she gives you the room number.  

it's mostly emails and texts these days though.  provider I saw today only used email. every girl and agency have their own preference for communication.  

1.get a preferred 411 first or date check.  You're going to need to be verified with those 3rd party verification sites... ,  unless you don't mind giving your employment info to her.  
2.find the girl you wanna see,  make sure she's well reviewed by guys who have a bunch of reviews (this increases the chance of her being who she says she is)  
3. get to the location with right donation.  show up very clean &  groomed.
4. don't make girl uncomfortable, don't come off sounding too desperate or bombard her with calls texts emails,  don't ask her real name or real personal number,  etc. (at least not until she considers you a friend in real life),  don't ask for bareback sex (BBBJ is OK tho) . don't show up drunk or drugged. just be a gentleman who acts mature, regardless of age, and you'll be fine
4. enjoy  
5. leave when time is up.

I'd go with the preferred411 verification/escort search system.  also VIP here on TER.  better site, more fxnal, easy to follow and search things...

research, research, research!!!!   its fun, anyway!!

set-up an independent e-mail.  e-mail first(you can think about what you are saying before you say it--unlike being on the phone), these girls make decisions about you via your communications skills...

remember that, though theses girls might be pros's, they are still women and appreciate being treated like women!!  (w respect and dignity

to gain much knowledge for P4P. You can never know too much. Also, read several pages here and you will see many topics repeat every 6 or 7 days.

With TER VIP you can read the juicy details in the reviews. Find a provider who is newbie friendly and schedule at least a 2 hr. engagement for your first time. Let her guide you and you will have a great time. Lastly, if you treat providers like ladies, then you will be fine despite your young age.

Follow it all.

One thing more:

Though many gals say they won't see someone under 30 or even 35, if you approach them in a very mature way with a well written email (Spelling and grammar oount!) and act like a mature 30 year old, they may bend their rules for you.

Welcome to TER.

dont worry about the lingo, you dont need to know that, i dont know what 2 call system is either!
the newbies and super young, hell your gonna be an easy appt, new guys are always easy, especially really young ones. you d be so intimidated by my skills i d have the full control the session, i have done appt for tons of young young ones, and its always easy, theyl def get back to you ,

The guys have not learned to control the bonding hormones that kick in after sex...  easily confused with love.  You do not love her or she, you.  You love what she does.  You love how she makes you feel.  If you use the L work, she'll dump you.  The last thing any provider wants or needs is a guy falling in love with her or stalking her...  wrecks her business.  

Second thing is this is a secret world.  Never tell anyone about it.  If you must talk, the is TER.  If someone knows you see providers, you give them great power over you & you never know when a drunk buddy or former friend will blab & fuck up your life.  

Skip the text speak, act adult, use complete sentences...   I'd suggest you see MILFs +/- 29-30...  young enough to be hot, old enough to have their act together.

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