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Agree with mrfisher.
swimtrekr 59 Reviews 319 reads
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There is no respectful way to ask that.  By asking, you are implying that you think she might not be disease free, IMHO.  In that case, she will probably be insulted, especially if she is a long time provider.  Also, if providing is her only source of income, it is in her best interest to get tested regularly and be sure that she is disease free.

Face it, there are risks in this hobby, and if you are too concerned about various risks, this might not be the hobby for you to partake in.

Swim

jpirone1751 reads

if she's clean (meaning no STDs)... in a respectful manner?

There is no respectful way to ask that.  By asking, you are implying that you think she might not be disease free, IMHO.  In that case, she will probably be insulted, especially if she is a long time provider.  Also, if providing is her only source of income, it is in her best interest to get tested regularly and be sure that she is disease free.

Face it, there are risks in this hobby, and if you are too concerned about various risks, this might not be the hobby for you to partake in.

Swim

jpirone334 reads

Id like to be a part of this hobby, so I will stick to only seeing well known and well reviewed providers.  I didnt think there was a good way to ask that question.

There are risks here as there are with civilians, and Ive never asked a civilian woman if she's disease free until Id been in a long term relationship and wanted to remove the cover.

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