And up front with them. Be forthcoming with whatever verification info they may require with in reason. I think if you have an actual conversation with the provider that will go a long way in making them more comfortable.  

At least that worked for me when I first started.

Contacting a provider and speaking to her over the phone may get you to the gate, perhaps even through it. Some additional screening may be needed, such as providing a state-issued ID, but not always. I contacted a newbie-friendly provider visiting from Vegas and gave her my reference, but she said not to worry about it (however, DO be cautious about your own safety--don't let your other brain do the thinking .

As swimtrekr said, P411 provides a number of options for verification and you can find providers that advertise themselves as newbie friendly. Also, check out the ad boards on TER if you haven't already. That's where I found a provider with only one reference to my name. Some will do their best to accommodate you.  

Good luck!

providers that are newbie friendly & don't require references for screening but you will need to supply additional information. I am from Vegas & I know there are a few providers that are newbie friendly. Take a look at the vegas board.

See a newbie friendly lady, I see guys with no references all time.

Because strangers have the best candy.