Re:age for a hobbyist

I never really knew what a hobbyist was, but I guess that I have become one!  I started when I was 29 and I am 34 now.  I have had many experiences since I started.  I started seeing providers because I was in a really bad marriage.   It's not a good excuse, but it is a reason.  At first, I thought of it as an act of desperation.  However, I had my first experience in Los Angeles and it was incredible.  Although she was not the ideal partner in terms of looks etc., she was very sweet and I was hooked (pardon the pun).   I was a kid in a candy store. There is something about calling up a number or, e-mailing someone and you know that you are going to get lucky.  I travel a lot so, I have had many opportunities. I have had varied experiences throughout the country and the world. I have had many bad experiences, but the majority of them have been really special.  The ones that are special I prefer to think of as ex-lovers who deserve to be thought of often. They have become part of me who have helped make me who I am right now.  I am in a great relationship now, but I still get the urge.  I still travel alot so, I must admit that I do act upon it. You will always want something different regardless of you circumstances. However, now I am pickier now about my experience. In other words, I do more research on sites like this one.

The most important advice that I can give you is to not feel bad.  It is normal to want to experience different women without entanglements.  Also, I do believe that Men can separate sex from love.  It's in our genetic make up.  I know that it sounds sexist, but it is true.  So, have fun and always be safe in everything you do.

Good luck.

I am curious as to the percentage of hobbyists that are married also.  So in order to satisfy my curiosity I make it a point to ask every provider I see what percentage of her clients are married.  The answers I get range from 70 to 90%!  (For the record I am not married.  I was married for 6 years and did not participate in the hobby while married.)

I guess I'm the old guy at 43.  Been a hobbyist for 17 years, never married either.

I started two years ago at age 34. I was totally single at the time, divorced, and completely fed up with dating. I figured the amount of money I spent on dates where you're not sure if anything will pan out, I could be investing in a more sure thing. So here I am.

Oh I still date, but hobbying has made me more selective and has given me more of an edge when I date, an I-don't-care attitude (which women seem to like), so now the dates work out better. When I'm in a relationship, I don't hobby. But my dream is to find a relationship that's open where once or twice a year we call on a provider to join us. Right! Oh well, I'm a dreamer.

Anyway, for all you newbies, this is a fantastic awesome hobby. After a year or two of doing this, each of us can say we've been with a variety of the most beautiful women in the world and have had some of the best fucks any man has ever had.

Keep in mind: This isn't exact, but I'd say 90% of the girls who have ads are average or worse (so do your research), 5% are really good, 3% are fantastic, and then there's that top 2% who will live in your heart forever. Those are the girls who are not only totally HOT but they are happy, well-adjusted, sincere, educated, passionate people and they have this great perspective on life and what they do.

The only warning I have is that the hobby can get addictive. Spend only what you can afford. You don't have to have every 8, 9 or 10 rated provider. Don't let it control your life. Consider this a treat, a little extra desert that's meant to be savored.

Also, consider it an incentive to make yourself more successful in your business and career. With more expendable income, just imagine the possibilities.