Hey guys and possibly gals I'm brand new to this hobby and have never seen a provider before. I'm more than a little nervous and am mostly worried about my age. I'm 21 years old and am wondering if it is common for providers to see people that young. Any feedback would be appreciated. Thanks.

I think majority of the people are usually 40 to 60. There is no need for younger people to pursue this hobby because usually you can get girls just by being young. And most younger people don't usually have the income to supplement this hobby. Correct me if I am wrong. The only benefit I see is that the sex should be more enjoyable and you get the gfe experience which you don't get from a real girl.

it's a bit young, but i know young people who hobby. some providers prefer older clients, usually they specify in their description. seeing a provider gives a different rush than banging your regular gf. and if you have the resources and guts for it then you're just part of the market. best of luck i say.

I'm obviously not a provider, but I know many that won't see younger men your age.  Too many of them don't know how to respect boundaries, discretion, and separate the fantasy from their real emotions.  You might find some who are ok with it, but I'll let the ladies here weight in more on this.

i have been seeing a 19 year old great looking nice guy for a couple months now.  he started out with agencies then moved onto independents
just be upfront with a provider about your age, be on time and a gentleman and you will do great.
good luck!

Many ladies will not see guys your age for a wide variety of reasons. If you really want to try it, I would suggest going to an agency first.  They generally don't have as much age restriction on their clients as indies might.

Good luck,
Swim

for many of us. I am 45 years old and simply feel more connection with men my age and older. I have also found that most younger guys are flakey, they don't respect our time or our bodies. Some providers will see men your age, read their website if it has age restrictions, move on. I can't tell you how many calls I get every week from youngsters begging to see me. They don't comprehend the word no.
Good Luck with the hobby, always remember to do your homework, you have a good start here on TER.

personally I wouldn't see you...I have kids older than you.

I don't see anyone under 40. Its all preferences really.

You seem to have maturity for your age, if one paragraph serves as an indicator. Your age is a problem or a benefit. I will use my experience as a prism through which I will provide you with advice. Become a master at use of your mouth on a woman and at gentle,erotic foreplay. Young men want penetration for release, such a waste of youth. Delay penetration, become adept at providing pleasure to the woman you're with with out penetrating her for one second. When you penetrate her, have her at an intense erotic high. Obey her requests for speed and depth of penetration. Avoid drugs or excessive amounts of alcohol, they add nothing to sexual pleasure.

Make your first contacts with providers that use only email contact. Your email will give the wiser ones among providers a sense of your maturity level and honesty. Be honest about your age, don't hide it.

It's the numbers on the end of your handle that worries me more...

good luck. most providers who see you unless you're 30. Don't be discouraged though. You have a better chance than me when I was that age thanks to wonderful sites like TER

Because I'm younger than you But, to quite a few women it does matter. It might upset you, but they have their reasons and I'm in no position to say they are right or wrong. However, I will say it's all about how YOU present yourself. If YOU act mature and think with your head, not with what's in your pants, you'll do just fine! Does that makes sense?

Sweet Dreams,
Anya

If you see a provider you are interested in, you should familiarize yourself with her site and see if you fall into the age range that she sees.

One thing to consider about your age, a provider may choose not to see you if she has grown children your age as she may feel uncomfortable doing so.  Again, you should respect her desires.

On the bright side, there are many providers who will see you.  Rather than concentrate on the negative, i.e. "the ones who won't see you," put your energy into finding ones who will.