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Question for providers about incall
ashley_angel 2175 reads
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I've been doing outcall massage for a long time and I want to start doing incall at hotel rooms and eventually my own studio (maybe).Providers, what are your safety procedures when doing incalls? Do you check id before clients enter the room? How do you remain discreet? Both at hotels and at your home? I already use the buddy system of course. But just want to be as safe as possible. Input appreciated. Thanks!

incall or outcall if you are verifying your clients and checking their references it should all be the same.
personally I don't like the idea of a standard incall. It's risky there are nosy neighbors and ups the charges if there is ever a problem. Using an apartment/home as a base for an illegal business is a felony charge. Creepy clients you may never want to see again now know where you are. If there's trouble you have to move. If there is trouble you get caught which is always a risk you lose everything in your home pets furniture and so on.
Hotels, you are here today gone tomorrow. I think it's safer.  Screening in or outcall should be just as tight either way.

Side note:

Never use your residence as an incall. Problem state above. You can rent an apartment on a month to month basis. The will be costly, so maybe share the expense with a friend. Using a rental make things more comfortable than a motel.

Depending on where you live (real estate costs), renting an apartment can be way more cost-effective than getting a hotel room twice a week.

Dear Nicole:
Or you could do it like the Dominicans do it in New York and you could have two or more places that way they never would get a pattern on where you are.  If you had a couple of lady friend that knew someone in real estate that would be a thought long as there wasn't too much traffic.

there is the issue of trouble.
A standard incall if popped will result in felony charges of using a residence to run an illegal business.
Not cool.
u lose everything in your place, will be evicted and all your stuff will go.
May be more comfortable for YOU but not as safe in the end.
An arrest here for a client is embarrassing at best and personally challenging
An arrest that can carry a felony with it for us can really mess things up.
I prefer to pass on some of your comfort, and ease my worries a bit.

Renting a room through hotwire.com or hotels.com works great for finding nice hotels for a less expensive price. If your incall is at some hole in the wall and you have multiple clients, that can be a dead giveaway. Picking a nice hotel, telling your date the location the day or or night before, and text/call him the room number when he arrives at the hotel or parking lot. I've heard of some ladies asking a man to strip so they can check for wires and other absurd stories...that seems a bit much, very rude.

The bigger the hotel, the less they'll notice your visitors. Some providers prefer the man to come through a side door instead of the lobby.

I can't give you any advice on bringing a man to my home. I've never done that because I have 2 male roomates haha

Good luck,
Anya

-- Modified on 10/20/2009 6:42:00 PM

shudaknownbetter2365 reads

You need to learn screening...  as a client I don't know all the ins & outs and should not be on a public board anyway.
You should not use your home.  As has been stated, the danger is way too high & you could lose everything.  The next step up for you is hotel rooms.  
Always use the 2 call system.  Do not give out your room number until the client arrives.  I once called from the other end of the parking lot, I was to be let in a rear entrance.  The lady said "I can't see you."  She had a room facing the parking & could see my car when I arrived.  
Change hotels frequently.  Do not always use the same room.  

No matter your services, you still must take full precautions.
Best Wishes,
skb
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