So I'm still researching to find a first provider, but still nervous about the hobby. I've seen a lot of questions about stings etc., but what about after the service? Is there any concern about LE after the fact - days, weeks, months after a visit? Thanks all.

Thats why I avoid agencies like the plague. Many instances of agency client lists being made public. Happened to a Florida and Arizona based company not all that long ago. There was a major bust in Long Island NY last year where the johns names were outed.

may be helpful for you to read about it, protect yourself also by seeing well reviewed and established providers.. we do not store your info, be careful on phone, text or email interactions, remember, we offer companionship, nothing else

Honestly Paloma, when will you learn? MANY providers keep a johns info. So cut this whole "WE do not store your info" bullshit.

but PLEASE, quit spreading that bullshit around to the noobs. Some of them are liable to actually believe you.

NO, not all providers delete your information, one of the main reasons being convenience for both of you. If a provider did indeed destroy all of your info, she would have no idea who you were if and when you were to contact her again, and would have to go through the screening process all over again. This is just one of the reasons the ladies keep your info. There are other, less honorable reasons for keeping your info as well, but this is just one of the legitimate reasons for doing so.

and PLEASE, lets stop with the "we offer companionship, nothing else" We all know why we are here, and so does LE, and at least LE requires proof before acting, a jealous spouse doesn't need proof, the mere allegation is enough to ruin a marriage or end a career. There is no "statute of limitations" where it comes to being "outed"

that LE can do is publish your name.  The damage will be done to you re your job, your SO, and family.  Since they didn't catch you in the act, there is little else they can do to you.  However, the public outing will cause enough problems for you.

Is to correct the bad advice given to him previously.

Even in your post you point out that once outed, for most people the damage has already been done, This needs to be addressed for the safety of the noobs. No one did any "bashing" here, we simply corrected some very bad advice and looked out for our newbie brothers.

Swim, you know "bashing" when you see it, and you know both Jack and I are perfectly capable of bashing if we did not respect the rules here, but nothing we said came anywhere close to bashing and quite frankly it needed to be said. So needed in fact that you felt the need to repeat what we said yourself.

You're right.  It wasn't really bashing Paloma, and both of you did answer the guy's question.  He did need to know the truth, and anyone who believes that all providers don't keep info on their clients is in la-la land. Thanks and keep up the good work here.

as in Clinton.   Deny, deny, deny and eventually people will maybe believe you or just won't  care.

but in deference to your wishes, AND TER rules, I will refrain from bashing the OP in the thread above us, but boy am I tempted. lol

That a simple statement that we disagree is nowhere near a strong enough response. You actually admit that Paloma is not only wrong, but very very wrong, by your own contribution to the thread.

These are newbies here, asking for advice to keep them safe.  To allow false information to be spread here, without making sure the damage was mitigated by a very strong response to the contrary would be irresponsible IMO.

Once upon a time posters who gave out continuous bad and dangerous advice were moderated to keep their posts from going live without anyone being around to set the record straight,That is not just a matter of opinion. i know this for a fact as I personally moderated several posters here for exactly that reason when I moderated this board. Swim does a great job, but he can't be here 24/7 and as a host, not a mod, he no longer has the power to put a muzzle on posters who continually give out bad and potentially dangerous advice.

We are not here to indoctrinate new members into being "good little clients" we are here to try to keep them safe, out of jail, and out of divorce court, while they learn the ropes.

She has been called out on this type of stuff on numerous occasions on several different boards and she keeps doing it time after time, which is another reason for a stronger response to her specifically.