New to the hobby. Met a provider with good reviews. Nothing concerning in them even known by another provider I had seen and trusted. This was the first time I had seen this particular person. She was very nice and very attentive. We got along great and had a nice coversation and a very good time. The concern and question is that this provider 1) did a BBBJCIMNQNS which I love but is not on her menu and 2) she offered BB intercourse which surprised me, scared me and which I refused.

Want a some help to sort this session out from some of you more experienced guys in this hobby.

Thanks for your feedback.

You don't need any help on this "offer" as you already stated that you refused her "service".  This is an area that does come up from time to time, and it is generally acknowledged that this occurs in this game.  It is up to you if you are interested in playing "russian roulette" and no one else.

And as far as the BBBJCIMNQNS not being on her menu...based on your experience, clearly it is.  Many of the ladies offer up activities that may not have been reported in a review, or they may have changed over time.  And this goes both ways on certain activities.  Nothing shocking here, but if indeed the lady is offering BBFS you were indeed wise to pass on it.  Also, if she offered to you, she offers to others.  If you decide to see her again, use caution.

Would you all advise to stay away from this lady? If I have no interest in the BB offer.

I would run..as fast as I could if that was something she was offering.  But there are those who actively seek that behavior out.  Do what feels most comfortable for you.

Run....Run Far away....    Bareback for Married couples... At least that was I am saving it for

If she offered  BBFS to you, she certainly offers it to others.  You can decide if covered FS is safe enough with her.  It's up to your comfort level.  If not, stay away.  
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These days any provider or hobbyist who offer/provides BBFS is a danger. If she offered it to you she's offered it to others. BBJCIMNQNS is MUCH less risky in getting an STD than BBFS. (however I don't ever offer either of these services)

I would not see this lady again. She has unsafe practices that cold jeopardize anyone's health she come into contact with. YUCK!

If not and you don't want to pay child support stay far away from her. Like other said run away. Of course you already know the std risks.