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tjr228 23 Reviews 2137 reads
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I'm new to this and need some help. I'm 23 and haven't had any luck with women, so I was possibly considering going to an escort to lose my virginity. But my problem is I know a lot of providers websites say you're not supposed to bring up anything sexual during first contact. But of course I want to make sure the person I choose is comfortable with my situation. So how do I bring it up in an appropriate way? Any advise would be greatly appreciated.

Cheers mate, I know just how you feel. I just lost my virginity 2 weeks ago to a provider I saw in a LA weekly ad. One day I was board stiff and decided to hit the gym for a workout, afterward I was feeling a bit tight in the shoulders so I called this ad for a legitimate back massage, got there and after paying $75 this girl dropped her clothes and told me to get naked, I laid down and the next thing I knew I wasn't a virgin anymore, I swear I didn't see that coming.

Anyway, the point is I never said anything to her about it being my 1st time and everything went great. I'd say just be comfortable with yourself and let an experienced provider handle the rest.

Thank god, the girl I saw was experienced, I had and still have no idea what I'm doing. As soon as I saw her naked, I went completely impotent so I ran to the bathroom to force an erection, 10minutes trying no luck, then the provider grabbed me and put her finger in a weird place that made me instantly go hard. Her experience turned what could have been a horrible 30minutes into a GREAT 30 minutes.

Hah....... Good luck!

LOL,  a legit massage should run between $50-60 for a full hr.  Maybe subconsciously, you were trying to pop your cherry that day.  Congrats!

Ask the lady of your choice:  I'm new to this.  Can you "break-in" a newbie?

I have found that the MILF's (say 35 up) are very good at this.  A girl in her 20's usually does not have the patience to be extra gentle or willing to show a guy how to please a woman.

Be sure you have VIP to read a lady's reviews.  Your first time should be memorable.

CrazyYoungster1470 reads

Then book with a well-reviewed provider. That's all.

Once the action starts -- that is, some part of her (even just her hand) has touched your private parts skin-on-skin (but not before) simply let her know you are a virgin.

I think the guy who recommended women over 30 is offering good advice, but there could be some notable exceptions in women over 25.

Thanks for the advise. I really appreciate all the help. So how long should I book for? I don't know if an hour is good, or maybe two.

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