Anything and everything helps. I am a noob  - as the internet puts it. I wish not to run afoul with authorities and thereby go for the seasoned women. I love older women.

Are to get Vip so you can research anyone who interests you, read the self help center and read back a few pages here on the newbie board. When you are ready to meet someone look for someone with many reviews by reviewers that have written many reviews. This is the right place to ask questions you can't find the answers to.

As previous poster mentioned, the self help center is a good place to start reading.  And, by all means, get VIP membership here, it's much needed to do research on providers you want to see.