Ive asked providers about why they have an age limit, most of them say its to weed out imature men. Going on the assumption that "older men" are more mature, more respectful of boundries, and are looking for a more intimate experience. I would def. ask, the worst she can do is say "no". Say "thank you" and keep looking. Good luck!
Need some advise. A provider lists over 40 men only. I'm 38 and wondering if it's ok to ask her if she'd be open to see me. I would be upfront with my age in the request. The only reason I ask is I've read her reviews and she provides qualities I desire in a provider. You know the intangibles that makes a good visit. Granted I'm going off others reviews but these qualities are mentioned in many of the reviews. If it makes a different she list her age as 45.
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You can certainly ask her if she would see you! I generally will not see gents under 35, but I WILL make an exception if they are within a few yrs of that number. As long as you are a gentleman when you contact her, I dont think there will be a problem. Of course, she can still say no, but if you really want to see her, its worth asking her!
Be polite when asking, you're so dam close to her age requirement, I certainly would give it a try if I was in your situation. The worse thing she can say is no, not a big deal, trust me there's other ladies out there for you to see.
Dear Katymarie:
What are the general conundrums you have predicated on age? When you are looking at the reviews and the verification sites what are the aspects that you tend to concentrate on when considering someone under the age limit? Also when considering his history what are some of the primary and key questions that you would ask regarding his demeanor and other critical factors to other providers? How would this influence you in making a decision to see him? Thank you for your time and consideration with respect to orientation when faced with the question of age discrimination.
Dear Duplicitouslust:
Well, the MAIN reason I GENERALLY do not see anyone under 35 is I have had several bad experiences with younger gents. They tended to not treat me with any form of respect ie: Shorting my ednvelope, or believing that because they were paying me, I did not have the right to say no to anything they wanted.
However, there are several reasons why I tend to see gents older than 35: 1), I have a little more in common with gents near my own age ie: I can hold a more meaningful convoersation with the gent about subjects we both understand or have an interest in.
2) My oldest child is 25 and I feel uncomfortable seeing anyone near her age
3) The younger gents TEND to like to go at things, shall we say, hard and fast, where I TEND to like things more sensual and slower.
However, this does NOT mean that I cant/dont make exceptions! I will see gents younger than my age limit IF they belong to a verification site such as P411 or DC and I see that they have a good rep with "Mature" ladies. I have ALSO made exceptions when they handle themselves properly in their emails to me.
This being said, I HAVE, in the past, refused to see gents who were ABOVE my age limit when they did not, in my opinion, handle themselves like gentlemen when they communicated with me.
Nothing is ever set in stone, and there will always be exceptions. I use 35t as my ideal model.
I hope I answered your questions? HUGS!!!!
Ive asked providers about why they have an age limit, most of them say its to weed out imature men. Going on the assumption that "older men" are more mature, more respectful of boundries, and are looking for a more intimate experience. I would def. ask, the worst she can do is say "no". Say "thank you" and keep looking. Good luck!
I would see you if you were honest. I have seen men just shy my age limit. Most of the time they write a nice email and then a casual joke about being a few years under my preferred age...
I don't think it's a big deal! But of course all providers are different.
gentleman clients who treat them like a lady rather than a blow-up sex doll. No lady wants to be pounded for an hour by some 25 year old that doesn't know how to treat a lady with class and tender loving care. Ladies, especially those in this biz, should be treated like the queens they are.
and im in my early 20's and their websites say 30 or older.
Go for it, just be upfront and honest and you shouldn't have an issue.
So I respected her preferences and moved on.
I have recently had this experience, I read all these great reviews of the 40ish provider, saw her "pics" and was like, I've got to have her. I sent a request and She did see me.
I was not as impressed with her looks or performance, as all the ones before me.
After much advise I've received here in the board I learned a valuable fact that I will now pass on to you.
She only sees guys over 40, so that who is reviewing her, (she even told me that her regulars are over 50.) Those guys standards of what " model material" is differs greatly from mine.
Good luck
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