I don't put much faith in reviews on other sites, because they are so easily bogus and the mods are the ones writing them many times. I won't accept some fly by night BP girl (notice I did not say just anyone who advertises there, because I have), with no history who can just disappear after the gent robs or kills me. I like a professional website because odds are if she spent money on creating one, she will be around for a while and cares about the people she sees.

If I know a girl from TER discussion who does not have a website, no problem. At least I can get an idea of her standards of men by looking at her reviews.

Other ladies....can't speak for them.