Some sites are more popular than others in different geographical regions.  For instance, RS2K is mainly Chicagoland.

P411 & Date-Check are more than just ad sites, but they are good for that too.  

Eros can be hit or miss, but seems good for travelling, in my experience.  

Please PM me if I can be of any help.  

Hi Debra_Hollander:

I'm located on the NC/SC boarder. I saw your pics and you have it going on girl!  

Im headed out to run some errands and to purchase a gift card so that I am able to have TER VIP access. Last night was my first time sharing my website. So, Im still in the process of making sure I properly connect the dots. Please be on the look out for a PM from me later this evening. Thanks for extending the olive branch.  

 
~Iv

I get lots of inquiries from here, as well as Date-Check. I don't use EROS because I am not at the point where I can afford to pay for advertising. I also get a good amount of traffic from p411. I notice the more I interact in the forums here and on other sites the higher quality men I meet. They like knowing women are smart and can express themselves well. Keep active here, present yourself in a mature respectful way and you will do fine!  
Welcome to the playground!