Im into older ladies around 30-45. Would most of these ladies except a young looking 21 year old? I've tried girls my age but alittle hesitant in trying the older ones in fear of being rejected.

If your money is green....they will spread their legs..and welcome you with open arms.

Check profiles for the age range that you are interested in.  Then check reviews.  Once you have selected some provider names, give each of them a call, introduce yourself and ask whether your young age is a problem, be honest during the conversation.  You should be ok and find someone to your liking who will have no problem with meeting you.

It seems that more and more providers in their mid 30's or older are imposing minimum age requirements. Follow stilltryin25's advice. Research and then contact the ladies. Be prepared for a few "no" answers. Keep at it; you'll find a willing lady.

thirsty

I have notice that a lot as well, why do you think that is?  I myself am free and clear now, but it is an interesting question.  Is it money, maturity, someone more stable, or something else?

But, I have seen men in their early thirties. But, I will refuse to see anyone under the age of 30. Oh well lol

Mel

I have had this conversation with ladies before.  

Unfortunately, some younger guys (I'm sure you are not one) take a bad wrap because they don't know how to make love to a woman.  There is no hurry.  Foreplay, conversation and good rapport are very important.

Some ladies have imposed age limitations.  They feel uncomfortable with the maturity level.  Do your research and contact each of the ladies you are interested in seeing.  There is someone out there for you.

Here are the hoops you must jump through:
1) Must be able to know a good dry gin martini straight up with a twist of lemon
2) Pass my screening profile from my website
3) Have valid ID
4) Pass my brief, not as painful as the MCATs but just as rigorous psych screening (*new*) a filter for the psycho quotient. Eccentric is fine.
5) Like Led Zeppelin
6) Comfortable using a condom.

I prefer to see men over 35 or so as well.  That is just a general guideline though.  I certainly wouldn't discriminate against anybody based on age alone.  It is just that respect and maturity tend to correlate well with age.  Those are really the qualities I, and I am sure most ladies are looking for.

The suggestions made here are good ones.  Contact the lady of your choice, and let her see a little of your personality.  If the two of you click, I'm sure an arbitrary number won't stand in the way.

I can compromise on many things, but a dry gin martini needs two small olives, not a  twist of lemon.

A lot of ladies site the maturity issue. However, I have seen some ladies also question why a guy this young would be seeing an escort. Right or wrong, some ladies feel paranoid that the young good looking guy might be LE.

thirsty

until now I did not think there was a reason to be happy about being over 35

just bring me the bottle of olives LOL yummy

Mel

Has anyone ever thought that those of us over 40 just might have sons who are close to the age of 21? Just something about "doing it" with your son doesn't feel right. As for if your money is green we will spread our legs, I think most ladies have more class than that. Just my opinion for what it is worth.