This maybe a newby discussion but I want to hear from some people with experience. I am flying into Washington DC, and looking to schedule a 2 hour appointment. I would like for the provider to pick me up at the airport and when we get to my hotel room continue the appt. I'm new and don't have any reviews on here, and am not willing to give out all my personal information or company information, however when the provider picks me up I will have my luggage, can show her DL and plane ticket that matches. I am not giving anyone my personal info in writing but they can look at my documents as proof that I am not LE. Is that proof enough? I know Providers are discreet, but when computers are confiscated there is nothing you can do to prevent LE from getting our personal info if it is documented in it.
I saw a provider in Las Vegas once who asked for my boarding pass and DL for verification.
Not sure about the climate in DC. How many ladies would go to the airport to meet some guy they do not know? Maybe some ladies will chime in.
my $0.02 -
are you serious?
the issue with references isn't exclusively about LE...it's also about the fact that when you are with a provider she is in a **very** vulnerable position (no pun intended), and verifying your references will allow her to have the peace of mind that you're not some psycho who will either hurt her or stiff her on the donation or some combination of the two, or damage her car (?) or something even worse
i think most providers would be very leery of what you're asking and i don't expect that you'll get many favorable responses...if you really insist on asking for this you need to firmly establish yourself as a reliable and safe hobbyist and provide real references, but again, i highly doubt many providers would even consider biting
here's a better suggestion - try to make arrangements before you get here (without any references you might have trouble in town), take a cab to the hotel and take a cab to see a provider or maybe the metro - public transportation in DC is pretty good
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you expect her to pick you up at the airport? Lots of locals dont even drive in DC (an you can expect a touring girl wont have a car), are you going to be coming into VA or Baltimore both a good 45 mins from the center of the city. you want to book two hours, shes got two hours of driving alone.
oh top of that you dont want to give up your info, have no reviews, or anyone to vouch for you.
you know we screen for things BESIDES you being LE - how exactly is your luggage tag and airline ticket going to let her know youre SAFE to see and not an entitled asshat.
im just askin 
Sorry to be negative, but without reviews and references, I don't think your plan will work.
And if you're fortunate to find an escort, she will probably put you on the clock the minute she leaves for the airport to pick you up. As previous posts have stated, it's not just about you being LE, it's about a comfort level for the ladies, and if you're not willing to share some of your personal information, you may have a very short hobby career. Good luck
You expect a provider to do all this for a 2 hour appointment, not to mention the fact that she has no idea if you are a serial killer, a deadbeat, or both.
Don't beat me up here... I'm just asking. My 2 hour appt would be in addition to any compensation for the ride from the hotel. I am not trying to be cheap. I just thought some comfort would come from knowing I am not a local, and seeing verifying info in a public place is safer for both of us.
DL, plane ticket, the fact that I am traveling on business rather than a local for would be verification for LE purposes. I understand that LE isn't the only thing screened for but my personal information isn't going to prove I'm not a bad person, which I am not. Seeing my business card and DL has every bit of personal information on it. I just don't want it written down in someones data base. Is that so hard to understand???
your boarding pass and business card and the fact that you have luggage won't prove you're not a bad person either - the only thing that will in the eyes of most providers is references
and like jenny said (paraphrasing a bit), most ladies who provide in DC do not actually live in DC but are either travelling or from the suburbs and get a hotel room to stay in the city for a few days...i doubt you'll find many providers willing to drive in DC at all, let alone pick up someone they don't know at the airport
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The problem with your theory is that your personal information is utterly WORTHLESS if it is not recorded somewhere, so that AFTER the date if it goes sour, the lady can then post your information on every blacklist site for providers so that you can't do the same thing to someone else.
Follow me here. Lets say I pick you up at the airport. You show me your plane ticket and your driver's license. We hop in my car, go to the hotel, have our fun. At the end of it all, I discover the envelope was stuffed with Monopoly money. So now I'm screwed and not in a way I like, and what do I have? I saw a DL. Big fat hairy deal. You are travelling, so who knows what city you will pop up in next, pulling the same scam, and without your information RECORDED somewhere, I have no way of giving other ladies a heads up.
This hobby involves risk, simple as that. If you aren't willing or aren't able to accept those risks, you are going to have to find a new hobby.
Your flight information as verification?? I've heard some hilarious stuff on this board, but this one definitely takes Top Honors.
Yes, you are new. Keep coming back. You will learn.
Why don't providers just erase client information after the session?
Also, I don't get how "verification" proves the client isn't LE. They could easily setup a dummy company to answer calls and provide employment verification, couldn't they?
My experience is that LE is not interested in you unless you're a high value target like a billionaire well known entertainer or big time Pol. If you are either, you should have other arrangments for getting satisfied on the side any way.
This scenario sounds very close to a scam that was pulled on a provider I know several years ago. The only difference was that the guy dangled big money as an additional twist. In the end, she was only out a chunk of time, but she was really pissed that she had been so taken in.
You bring up a good point; but LE possession of the client list is absolutely meaningless. The fact she has your name could mean anything, including that you were trying to sell her a new handbag. Being in a provider's computer, in and of itself, is not sufficient evidence to prove anything.
Dude, here's a thought for you. Men, generally, go to jail for violent crimes much more frequently than women. They are generally physically stronger than women, and are often capable of killing a woman with their bare hands. Historically, many serial killers have specifically targeted providers.
Do NOT expect a woman to pick up a perfect stranger at an airport in her own car, not even knowing your real name. If she does, she's crazy enough you probably shouldn't see her.
