Ladies,

Are you friendly/friends with other providers in your area or do you keep to yourself? Did you ask for their help when you were starting out? If so, how were you received? I appreciate this in advance, ladies, thank you!!!

Julia has very good advice.  I am fairly new and I do not personally know any ladies in my area.  However, I did ask for info/advice/suggestions and there were quite a few ladies that offered and provided me with sound and honest information.  But always when you ask for information use that information as a tool to come up with your own decisions.

Hang in there and no matter who it is in this business, always be careful in who you trust and like Julia mentioned, always be thankful and appreciative to those that offer their help.

Sincerely..

*Kendall*

Seems like a bit of a catch-22.  You have to be careful about who you trust but at the same time how can you tell if your booker is legit?  What if you walked into the very worst situation by trusting someone to book for you that doesn't have your best interest in mind but the bottom line instead?

Its probably a good idea to keep most local providers at arms length. I did meet one great provider here on the board and she's been giving me some sage advice. However, she's not in Omaha so I was hoping to find a local mentor. No such luck. Oh well!

Thanks for responding.

Layne

I don't like most of the women in my local area because we simply have NOTHING in common but the fact that we both escort. Only 2 of them, would I consider friends.

When I first started out I had a mentor, and I've had a few  ladies contact me and ask me about getting started and I took them under my wing to give them the real deal and help them to learn the biz.

Whenever I travel, I like to have a local lady nearby that I trust to meet up with, and help me out if I need it. If i don't need help I still like to meet up and talk shop and shoot the breeze.

The hard thing bout this biz is not having many people to talk to who understand what we are going through. It is hard to know who to trust and who not to but if you look at their reputation that should help you know who is a good person to stick with and whos not. Always follow your gut instinct also!

Just be careful not to step on toes or be one sided and taking and taking without giving anything back, because if you do that the other provider will get sick and tired real quick. Trust me. I learned that from experience, on the sick and tired end. But we all make mistakes starting out!!

Good luck.