I'd like to relate a very strange outcall experience I had once years ago that I still can't understand.  It was only my second experience in the hobby and was very clueless (i.e. Used the yellow pages. Ughh).  Suffice it to say I've wised up since and have learned the ropes.

First off, I didn't cross any red lines (left the envelope and didn't discuss any prohibited subjects, etc).

The provider seemed very nervous from the start, obviously thinking that I was LE.  She looked behind drapes, opened my closet, etc, etc. After going through her (lengthy) list of rules, she did something I've never heard a provider do since.  She asked "What do you want to do?".  This floored me. I had thought this was something you really didn't talk about until at least you both got comfortable.  But she wanted me to get specific right from the start.  I was nervous as hell and no doubt it showed.  Now I suspected she might be LE.  So I decided to be coy about it and not directly answer (I blathered something about "how about we start with a massage...").

In the end I don't think she was LE because (after 30 min) she did make herself comfortable. But by that time I was in no mental state to do anything.  She left.

Strange.  Maybe my nervousness and newbishness scared her.  But every encounter I've had since has flowed naturally without any need for "indiscreet discussion" beforehand.  Perhaps thats because I've done my homework on each one since.

Thoughts?