I've seen several providers and I've noticed the same pattern about me:  it takes a lot of stimulation for me to cum.

Now, I really like BBBJ.  But I can imagine it can get tiring for a lady to keep doing it for 20 minutes straight with no explosion.  I often feel concerned for the lady and ask if she needs to take a break.  

At the same time, I did pay for an hour of her time.  So where does one draw the line?  I want to be someone whom she is comfortable and happy seeing again and again and also someone whom she is comfortable referring to other providers, whitelisting, etc..

So, how long is too long to expect her to work for a BBBJ?  

Also, in general, how much of the 60 minutes can we reasonably expect to be "working it" time vs break time?

I know this is a sensitive matter, and I appreciate your thoughts (hobbyists and providers alike) in advance.

I'm not saying this to bash any particular provider as I've been fortunate to see some very giving and understanding providers so far.  
I just wanted to get a feel for the etiquette.

Thanks,
RedCloak

of being a difficult or labor intensive hobbyist.
However, any provider that is worthy of her profession should not have much of an issue. This is where careful choosing of your providers will pay off.
The good providers will view you as a challenge and be up for the task.
You have to balance out a provider who visually stimulates you yet has performance scores that indicate she will be the right provider.

It is hard to say 5 minutes of a BBBJ or 25 minutes. It depends on the provider's stamina. Perhaps if you move in a few different positions for a BBBJ, it would cause less strain on her.

Just make sure if they work extra hard that you are out the door on time.

One lesson that I learned over years of hobbying is that activities leading up to an orgasm determine how pleasurable the orgasm is. Take the focus off your pleasure and put it on mutual pleasure for you and the provider. You mentioned BBBJ, but do you DATY or DFK? I focus on finding providers who meet my standard for beauty and age. If when I meet her in person, she also has superb hygienic practices and personality, I can use pleasing her as an avenue for my own pleasure.

I've had sessions that were wall to wall sex from the minute the door at the incall closed and then other sessions, that were less than that. Some ladies can suck the chrome off a bumper and therefor, could give you a bbbj for an hour. Bottom line, your questions are very difficult to answer. I wouldn't really worry to much, if your high maintenance, your high maintenance, and what one lady considers you that, another might consider you pretty standard. Just be respectful and you should be fine.

Maybe it's just me but I'l go for as long as it takes and if I need a small break I'll let them know but I personally don't tire too easy. I've had a few clients who were very long winded and have donated for hh and taken up until that last minute to release and I went pretty much the whole 30 mins w/ no break. Another occasion I had a guy who donated for an hr session and after like 45 mins he still hadn't released and I took maybe a 2-3 min break around 30 min mark and I'm pretty sure it wasn't anything I wasn't doing and he let me know the same but I think he got frustrated with himself & let me know sometimes when he sees a provider sometimes he releases and sometimes he doesn't. I'm pretty understanding but lol I also feel like I'll rock it out for as long as you donate for and I do work it like I just have to get it out of you lol.

Every encounter is different. Some dates are non-stop action, for the duration of our tryst. Others on the other hand, appears to be approximately half intimacy and half pillow talk.

If you read my reviews, you'd find that I'm a jizz guzzling enthusiast for BBBJ's and I don't have a problem doing it for 60 minutes non-stop. As a matter of fact, when a gentleman says he only pops once, I accept it as a challenge and will proceed. Sometimes, I prove them wrong...and other times, I don't. However, it's guaranteed they will enjoy my mouth regardless.

I might actually be the minority, in this subject. As I know, others do complain about this. Your best bet, is to read their reviews thoroughly to see if they appear to have the stamina to keep up...without a break.

Best of luck to you,
Paris Bouvier

10 min to wait for a gent to explode, is tops. You have to understand the work that goes into it. If you have a hard time , try other stimulations, Like lube, hand job , breast play etc.

I don't know what is too long...  but I sometimes have trouble completing unless the stim is exactly right.  Even though I don't complete, any activity takes me closer is a help.  

A lot of guys mark off for added hands as not being pure bbbj.  But porn stars add hands pretty often.  So I talked with my ATF & we agreed to no hands to build up the tension...  when I'd right on the edge...  I really want to finish, I tell her I want to Cum, she adds hands & I pop within a few minutes.  

hope this helps,
skb

There is no finite answer.  Most ladies use varrying techniques to accomplish the mission.  

Maybe you should abstain for at least a week before a date to build up your horniness.  Also, your diet 24 hrs. before the date can have something to do with your situation.  For me, I drink very little or no alcohol prior to a date.

That I was talking about. You have the RVW seal of approval. We must cross paths

Ten minutes tops? Oh man!

It takes me about 10 minutes just to cover their balls with my tongue. Most guys want to hold out as long as they can...this isn't a marathon we're running here. Take your time and enjoy the journey, the destination WILL cum in due time!

Again, that's why reading reviews are crucial!

Paris

Ultimately the lady decides how much is too much. She will stop when she is tired or she may cotinue if you prod her but you will wind up on her DNS list.
That being said, I don' think a 20 minute BJ is unreasonable though I have definitely been with women who did. It's a human interaction so it's only natural that a guy is not going to click with every escort that he sees. Over the years my ATF's have been the women who where interested in having a good time with a guy who really enjoys certain activities and doesn't care too much about others.

I guess I won't be seeing you.

My s/o refuses 'no' for an answer. If I don't spout she keeps on a keepin on.

hell everybody knows the rest.LOL

Then you should never get an 8 for performance... going the extra mile...

It makes me feel like there's nothing more that she wants than for me to CIM, or wherever...

I have to admit I don't get the no hands preference some guys seem to have. One provider I saw got rave reviews for her BBBJ, and it was hands-off relentless jack-hammering. I got there in the end but all mouth is definitely not the best technique for me.

Another provider used her hands to great effect. Squeezed, played, explored. Best ever! And none of the reviews mentioned her skills in this area. Maybe I'm just different.

That is why Paris is on my bucket list...right at the TOP !!!! World class, First Class kind of lady. She still puts the customer FIRST, and with great pleasure. Just read her reviews WOW.

Me either...as my pal Joe Pesci said "what are you fuckin' shittin' me". its a quote, remember that.

No train wrecks will be tolerated here.

I personally will ask them to stop after 5 to 10 minutes. I can rarely finish with a BJ and I like other positions. Any longer than 10 minutes for me and the little fella gets desensitized or something, so when I move into position it can take me a long time to complete. I've even had a couple providers complain about the length of time, because they were getting a little tender you know (not saying I'm huge or anything). So I take the high road and ask for the cover after 5 - 10 min. That gives me snuggle time when we are done.

we all like certain things in an experience, the Ladies as well. Some prefer a more well rounded playtime where we all have fun and from her reviews no one seemed to mind the fact that she doesn't want to suck your dick for the whole 60 minutes. She seems to have pleased everyone who has reviewed her even though she only gives a 10 minute BJ. There are a variety of clients who want very different experiences and those who choose to see her have all been wowed and seem to have been thrilled with the time they spent with her.
so many times a post likke this goes up and too many gals are all harping on the fact that they will suck your dick til the cows come home. Its a "pick me" ploy how I see it. At least this girl is very honest about what she is all about what she likes and dislikes. and not trying to sound like she is willing to do what ever for a shot at a client. she is the way she is it works for her and seems to work for many Gentlemen as well. I am not a fan of an appt thats a 1hr BJ either, thats just not me and its best that a gentleman knows this so they won't make the mistake of trying to book an appt with me. I read her comments first and jes if I had not known to go read her reviews I may have thought also she is not accomidating to her clients but once I hit the reviews I saw she goes above and beyond to please them. there seems to be more to her than a decent BBJ shes a natural seductress. But at least she has now weeded out the guys looking for the 60 minute BJ. she doesn't want them any way. thry will all be calling Paris for that. Good luck with that Paris. you are a better woman than I am.

I also know who just went to the bottom.

Any woman, provider or otherwise, who thinks I am going to cum after 10 minutes of any type of stimulation, is going to be sadly dissappointed if that is her goal.

Paris just exhibited several of the qualities we all look for in a provider, while Bella just exemplified some of the worst.

HAY, IF YOU HAVE A HR, i WOULD SPEND 10 MIN ON A BJ AND MOVE TO OTHER STUFF. mOST MEN WITH MY SKILLS CANT LAST THE WHOLE SESSION WITH A BJ, SO MOVING ON IS BEST. AND, IF THATS ALL THATS ON THE MENU, THEN LONGER IS OK... IM JUST SAYING .. IT DOESNT HAPPEN.

YEP, i GUESS THAT MEANS IM JUST THAT GOOD.

Wonderful thoughts and suggestions!

Thanks again!