What is the boundary between GFE and PSE. In 411, one sees provider advertising BDSM, Dominant or submissive when they have very little idea of being either. They do not even have the most basic BDSM toys. Then there are terms like freaky, open minded , it is getting rather exasperating.  Someone please enlighten me.

In what I know PSE is pornstar activities and GFE is like what you say girl friend activities such as holding hands, DFK, and PSE is like what porn stars do haha I don’t really know because I would think it doesn’t really matter as providers write anything they see what other providers wrote who are tryna bring In The cash flow anyway possible but there are providers who are strictly do PSE or GFE! as long as she bbbj is on the list I’m all for it lol

Gals will say anything if they think it will get you in their door, and there are no government agencies to regulate the commercial speech you'll find in their ads.

As the years progress, I see a further dilution of the terms we use in p4p. GFE (the GirlFriendExperience) was, at one time, understood by most in p4p to include kissing, 3BJ and DATY. Optional were DATO and greek.

Now we see all kinds of bastardizations -- GFE "Lite?" When someone can interpret the term to mean whatever THEY want it to mean, it becomes less and less useful. I've see one provider interpret GFE as being the "kind of experience a girlfriend would offer" -- and she doesn't offer kissing or any uncovered oral activities. Not my kind of GF, that's for sure!

So yes, reading reviews and sifting for details is about the only indicator that you may or may not have a shot at getting what you're looking for.  

Buena suerte!

As others have noted, too many providers use whatever language & terminology they believe will get your interest piqued enough to book.  

However!  Nowadays, there are sooooo many ladies on Twitter & other social media who make an effort to let you know what they do and do not offer.  They own their menus, even if they are limited or only what might appeal to a niche audience.

Such ladies will usually also take the time to make their style and offerings clear on their personal website, if not in their ads.

So be willing to do some reading to find the ladies who are not just marketing themselves to EVERY would-be client, but are actively putting themselves forward to those who are searching for exactly what they have to offer.

You'll find some wonderful gems who are perfect fit for your tastes and desires!