But on the other hand, its also sometimes hard for her to remember back 6 months too. Many use cell phone numbers. Or email addys. Some just want their memory "jarred" so to speak. "This guy says he saw you at XXXXXX Hotel on XXXX day. It was snowing. Blah blah blah. Not as hard as you think.

name of the hotel or location of the incall we met at. Even though I don't see but maybe 2 a week, if you are not a regular, it's doubtful I am going to just remember you. A guy who only saw me for 2 hours, 2 years ago, is not going to exactly stand out unless I remember the city. I tend to remember certain guys from each city I visit, that way. Best thing to do is remind her about your date, without getting explicit. You can say, I am the one who brought you that bottle of wine, and could not find the location...something along those lines.

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something funny that happened between us, and log them that way...  

For example, a client may have brought me something, lets say a penguin something ( I collect them)  

so he would be penguin guy lo

remembering

they usually remember the gentlemen and never forget the pricks..

If you would like to use the provider as a reference in the future, or would like her to clearly remember you to give you an Okay, I suggest the following:

Wear something unusual.... florescent g-sting anyone! And be sure to point it out and have a good laugh about it.

Bring her a small, but memorable gift.... a pretty hair clip, sexy underwear, a bottle of her favorite beverage, etc.

The purpose behind this should be to help her to remember you in the future, but it's probably best not to lead with the "I'm gonna use you as a reference" foot. Some providers get a little put off by the inference that you are going to have a slew of people contacting her about you, so that's not a topic to bring up at the beginning of the visit.  

Always,
Gina