Kind of a newbie. Before I found this site I when on bp and booked an appointment. The girls ad did not say anything back being ts. When I showed up it was a completely different person on the ad and it definitely a ts. I started to leave and she got really angry and try to call her pimp. I run. She sent lots of nasty messages to my phone. Anyway I think she may have put my number on some backlist. Not getting lots of responses from providers. What are the sites I can use to check my number and are there ways I can fix it if that’s the case?

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No you probably can't fix it.  But it may be searchable by others.   Changing your phone number might be a good idea at this time.  A cover story may be more useful in real life... a scam or extortion attempt.  

I hope you didn't give your real name.   Frankly, that's why hobby phones or apps are used... and hobby email accounts not linked to yourreal life.    

I have since switched to google voice for all communications. And definitely don’t have my real don’t

If you have been blacklisted entering the hobby, that’s horrible. I’ve had my share of bad experiences back in the 90s before there was review sites, when agencies advertised in the phone book. Creepy drivers, a toothless woman, even cash and dash once. In addition to TER, I also use P411, a verification site that’s popular in my city. Women who advertise on P411 are verified and link to their reviews to sites like TER from their ad. You can PM them on that secure site and request appointments there too.  

I have my “provider okays” on that site. It works like TER whitelisting. I have a hard time believing that a pimp (who is shady at that) posting ads on BP is going to have any effect on you once you start seeing well established, well reviewed providers who have ads on a verification site. You need to start with “newbie friendly” providers until you have 2-3 okays with in a span of 6 months to show a history, then you will be fine. Pimps are not looked upon favorably to put it politely. It would be pretty messed up if a shady pimp had access to a blacklist board. Get on a verification site popular where you live (you can ask about that on your local board) and build a positive reputation with your local providers.

I had scheduled was subjected to increased security.  It seems some newbie had tried to book a date from an email account his wife had access to.  It was supposedly his first try... soon-to-be-ex-wife she kicked him out & the prospectve client blamed the provider for answering his email as requested.  So the prospective client stalked & harrassed her.  

Really, we're we all lucky... when we started... that we didn't do something really stupid because heck, WE WERE NEWBIES.  You've learned a valueable lesson.      

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