Safety is one of the most important, if not the most important, consideration for all of us to keep in mind, both men and women.  This post is sparked by a very recent conversation I had with a provider friend.  She had a potential client contact her the other day, wanted to see her, but he would not provide references, or use her contact form on her website.  What's up with that?  He expects her to see him knowing nothing about him?????  Needless to say, she is not seeing him based on that, she ain't crazy.....

We all know about screening, something very necessary to maintain the safety of both parties.  Guys, if you do not want to provide your potential provider with the information she desires, then you are just wasting her time.  Some girls screen tougher than others, but regardless, we need to be willing to cooperate with her rules if we expect to pay her a visit.  After all, don't we want her to be comfortable seeing us?

Remember fellas, there are verification sites you can use.  DateCheck, Preferred411, and RoomService2000 are the 3 most widely used sites that I am aware of.  Until you have established a solid rep with the ladies, this is a good way to keep your information given out to a minimum.  Check in your area of the country to see which is most acceptable where you are.

One last thing for newb's to keep in mind, think with the big head, don't TOFTT with a provider just because she is hot.  Stick with well-reviewed ladies by experienced hobbyists until you have some experience yourself.  Get VIP membership and read the reviews.

Happy Hobbying,
Swim

You post the same note every  week.  It will save a lot of work.

I hope many read this post it is really good advice for just not newbies but everyone.There are some guys that do not want to provide info but still want to see the ladies.Any lady that values her life and safety is not going to see anyone who has not provided adequate info for the lady to feel safe and be comfortable.One other thing you mentioned newbies don't think with the little head and TOFFT because of the hot pics also applies to some guys that are not new many guys that know about TER and review unfortunately has been sucked into this as well.
Great advice!!