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SGS9989 1900 reads
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I have had numerous times where a provider is either heavily texting or actually talking on phone regarding an appointment.  Then close to appointment time, she cuts off all communication and you are left high and dry.  Any idea what happens here?  Think I am LE, overbooked, better offer, got tired?? I presume they all want and need the cash.

Please advise if happened to you, or if provider, whatz up?

hiddenhills539 reads

You'll never know why. Just move on, and yes it's happened to me. I just found another escort to see.

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perfectstorm464 reads

it could be you. If you say this has happened numerous times, maybe you are giving off some bad vibes to the ladies. We are not privvy to your conversations so we can't answer your question as to why it happened, and it certainly could be that she is flaky or got a better offer. But it could be that they see you as a time waster, or something else. Maybe everything is fine during your intitial conversations but as you communcate more, they get a bad feeling about you. Think about what you are doing or saying, and how the conversations have gone down. Maybe make some adjustments. Just throwing out the possibility.

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SGS9989451 reads

I appreciate the comments.  I suppose that someone can be too nice with the se providers, correct?  I have learned that for most, they will give you great attention to get an appointment, usually will talk only if the appointment is next day or same day.  Most do not seem to want any scheduling going on, like for two weeks when I am back to MPLS.  Frustrating because then I scramble that day, and this crap happens so it's a DIY night :(  Wish they would schedule and then keep appointment.

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crazyshit405 reads

It coulda been something you said, or something else entirely.  We just don't know.

Can you be "too nice"?  I don't know what that means.  I suppose if you are "too nice" in the sense that you start talking about wanting to settle down with her or turning this into a love affair...well, that could be creepy or scary, I suppose.

Lots of providers will talk about scheduling beforehand, but they will want to confirm and commit shortly before the appointment.  Did you do that?

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swimtrekr479 reads

It has happened to all of us.  It might be hard to accept, but move on.  I had to do same.

Swim

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SGS9989377 reads

We never saw each other ever. It was going to be first meeting...

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Here_to_help526 reads

Perhaps you reached out to her too many times?! Meaning, give her some space. I understand the whole Mr. Nice Guy routine and you want to come off as being legit. But if you don't hear from her within 48 hours of the appointment, find someone else.

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earthshined411 reads

leave names out

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SGS9989473 reads

Sure.

Contacted her earlier this past Monday morning before flying to Minneapolis. made contact via phone. Small talk, then she told me what hotel she will met me at. Told me to call her when I get settled in hotel. Her ad said something about wine, so I asked if I could buy her a glass 15 before our session. She was excited I thought and said great. When I landed I texted I arrived and could make the appointment time. She then said her CC was declined so no hotel. But she said she has a cute apartment by the river, and we could meet there. I asked what kind of wine she likes, and she told me, and that I would need to take a cab. After I checked in and showered, I tried to contact her to get address, and that is when she went "dark"! Have not heard from her all week. I moved on but wondered what I did wrong for the future.

Thanks.

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earthshined445 reads

if the first call to her was the monday morning, and you didnt make any others -than the rest of your post states-,imo, you didn't do anything wrong or call too much.

providers are sometimes flaky or sometimes busy. you might ty to contact them, for ex., let's say the first week of the month. you get nothing. no response.their website link(s) might be down and you think they have disappeared. then the next month you see they're active.

I've had appointments scheduled from the beginning of the week and emails few times back and forth.confirmed the day before and then NCNS. I have noticed that if there no early contact on the day of the appointment. i.e., if the appt is at 7pm and they have not contacted me in the morning or before noon, they usually end up cancelling

It takes getting used to but if they don't respond, just ignore it and try someone else. just like you did.

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saturnsky359 reads

If everything went as you posted, you did nothing wrong. In fact, you remembered certain things. Glad you moved on, couldn't begin to tell you what happened.

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SopwithCamel341 reads

You may not realize it but possibly be putting out some bad body odors or halitosis; believe me when I tell you, ladies talk about these things, and while some are willing to roll with it, a certain percentage of them actually have a gag reflex to certain foul or gross aromas; believe me, if this is the case, you're lucky she did cancel....

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Sscham9989439 reads

Thanks but I think I am good. Two showers a day, I swear. No skidmarks in my undies!

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