Hobbyist noob here. Ive hit up MP and the like and still nervous about making the plunge to see a provider. VERY paranoid about running into LE. I have much too lose like the rest of you. Any advice to settle my nerves?

Thanks all

You are statistically more likely to be killed in a car wreck on the way to the appointment then you are to be met by LE when you arrive.

You are also "less likely" to run into LE if you have the companion visit you at a place of your choosing rather than vice versa.  LE prefers to control the environment, be in the next room, etc.  Sending a female agent into an unknown place with unknown number of occupants, etc is "for the most part" not going to happen.

Besides all that, stick with reviewed ladies and you'll be fine.  Once you have more experience you will have a better "sixth sense" for when to take one for the team and try out an un-reviewed lass.

Outcalls to you are saver from the le but it means there coming to your home so you have to weigh that option. You can always get a room some girls offer to take the room out of the donation if they do not have a place. Alot of people say to stick to the reviewed woman on here its safer. I think the most important thing to worry about is agency girls and drivers because they like to pull the bait and switch and ask for more money(another reason to stick to reviewed woman). But if you show up and it doesn't feel right than don't do it and walk away. Also some girls will provide refrences from there regulars, that's something I have been asking for lately after being robbed.

Take everyone's advice and just do it!
Relax,yes LE is out there,but they are out numbered by professional ladies,who know their shit!
Have fun!

Read back several pages until you can answer ever question yourself.  You should find the self help pages & read them throughly.  (all free by the way)

When you get ready, you should get VIP and select a well reviewed provider (from all that reading you'll understand what is a well reviewed priver & beable to check those reviewers too.)  

I'm always nervious beginning a first date...   it does lessen with time.
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Follow all of the previous advice!  I am rather new (about 6 weeks) having studied the site for about a month before I took the plunge. I have been with two well revewed Providers and had a wonderful time -- more like dates without the hassels.  My first provider had 83 reviews, my second had 12. One incall, one outcall.  Relax. Book a 90 minute or 2 hour appt so you are not rushed.  My first provider knew I was a first time newb and really treated me well. As for LE, little risk if provider is well reviewed. LE is basically lazy and wants easy targets like SW. If girl has website and reviews you should be fine.  Always remember to trust your gut; if something feels wrong, then it is wrong.  Nerves are fine.  Happy Hunting.

I was the same way when I saw my first a provider. Me and that provder still make jokes about until this day, because I was so scared.  As others mention only see well reviewed providers. If you don't have VIP on TER yet, look and see how many reviews, and check the time date on her.

Once you've seen a few girls, and you get your VIP Status, you'll get the feel of if a provider is real or not if she has no reviews. I've seen 15 girls so far, and 3 of them now I see on a steady rotation based on how they visit my city, so that helps.

Being new.....I don't recommend bringing a provider to your house. I would just pay for a room.

Were u robbed by a provider?

heh I was in the same boat as you, until just recently.....

Once you decide to take the plunge, find an experienced and well reviewed provider and go from there.  Hell even if you think it's overpriced compared to random adds you see, there is a reason for that.  For us newbs it's relative safety, a petty much guaranteed good first experience.

By good I mean omgwtfbbq that was f'in amazing....

Thanks a ton everyone I found one yesterday on this site that I lost track of through bp. She is perfect! New but reviewed. Let the good times roll!

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heh I was in the same boat as you, until just recently.....

Once you decide to take the plunge, find an experienced and well reviewed provider and go from there.  Hell even if you think it's overpriced compared to random adds you see, there is a reason for that.  For us newbs it's relative safety, a petty much guaranteed good first experience.

By good I mean omgwtfbbq that was f'in amazing....

Amen, brother!  

  Just remember, if she has a bunch of reviews, looks well put together, and if she has a website explaining the screening process, most likely she's careful with personal info.  

Look for a provider in your area with a good amount of reviews.  I mean not all providers are crazy expensive with good reviews. If you mention to the provider you are new and a bit nervous, she will understand.  Hell, even WE get nervous sometimes when we meet a new person!





  Hope this helps and best of luck!