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And I have done this a few times ... Ask her to take a pic of herself in the outfit after you leave (without her face of course) and she can send it to you if she is comfortable or better yet ask her to post it on TER in her next ad or photo thread ... This way she has all the control and feels safe yet you still get your little momento ... when you see it posted its like a little secret between you two

For you providers.. Just something I have wondered about.. I have not done this.. and can understand why someone may get very upset about it..
What would happen if a client.. lets say a repeat customer.. wanted to take your picture while he was there.. Maybe it's the outfit you are wearing.. maybe it's just because you are so darn cute.. whatever.. not a porn pic, just a picture to have..  How would you react? I have thought about this with a few providers that I find irresistible but I was afraid to ask.. I'm not talking a photo shoot.. I'm talking a snapshot  with my phone..  
Thanks..

You never know what could happen to phones these days, they get stolen, get in the wrong hands.. etc.. Just because I am a student and I am very strict with privacy, I would prefer not to have any of my pictures to be floating around (reason why I do not have Linked In, Facebook, Instagram or any of those). Maybe other providers who are not as concerned about privacy may oblige, but my future endeavors just prevent me from being so open right now...

Makes complete sense to me.. but sometimes.. it would be nice..

And sometimes it would be nice to be tipped in hundreds but we all can't get what we want, lol.

Posted By: josulli
Makes complete sense to me.. but sometimes.. it would be nice..

If she has a real life thats seperate from this one, it's a bad idea to have any pictures that link her to this. That goes for face pics in ads or pics taken by some random guy that wants one for his spank bank or to pass around to his buddies.

some providers will say ok, to a long time client, where there's a lot of trust. Others will say no way.
Like many things this is a YMMV situation. You do know certain providers will even let you film a session.  

Posted By: josulli
For you providers.. Just something I have wondered about.. I have not done this.. and can understand why someone may get very upset about it..  
 What would happen if a client.. lets say a repeat customer.. wanted to take your picture while he was there.. Maybe it's the outfit you are wearing.. maybe it's just because you are so darn cute.. whatever.. not a porn pic, just a picture to have..  How would you react? I have thought about this with a few providers that I find irresistible but I was afraid to ask.. I'm not talking a photo shoot.. I'm talking a snapshot  with my phone..  
 Thanks..

I would not be a bitch about it to a guy that was a regular, but I would also no way in hell ever do this. I've spent a great deal of time obscuring who I am in real life, because I have both a family and a career to protect...only someone with nothing to lose would be so careless. Hobbyists and providers can both turn bad...I would never take the chance. If he wants some shot of my body with no head, I will take it from my own device, and send. That way, he can't simply unblur my face, because there is NO face to begin with. I am merely entertaining an option of course...I don't get paid to take photos or webcam.  

We are paid DURING YOUR TIME, not to send you jack off material after the fact.  

Paloma, I feel the exact same way about social media...stupid to take such risks.

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Some ladies are ok with it and some are not. As hh said, some even allow you to videotape the session. I have taken pictures of providers (with their permission) and always emailed them copies. Some have ended up on their websites!

I might allow the picture but def without my face in it!!

Get the picture? (Yes pun intended) If we crop or hide our face in our ads/website, that means we want privacy.

And I have done this a few times ... Ask her to take a pic of herself in the outfit after you leave (without her face of course) and she can send it to you if she is comfortable or better yet ask her to post it on TER in her next ad or photo thread ... This way she has all the control and feels safe yet you still get your little momento ... when you see it posted its like a little secret between you two

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