I have a ATF provider that i like because she is close to where I live, but I don't want to keep visiting her, what do you guys think it is an ok amount of times to visit a provider per month until they start banning me because I visit too much.

oh by they i mean the atf. It is actually a booker who has many people that i why i call day, but there is a girl that I always go to.

What do you mean by SA?

If you can afford the donations and you are always clean and respectable, I can't imagine why they would ban you ....?

to your frequency of visits....

If the "service" gets stale, the attitude gets flat, the welcome less than stirling, *reduce* the freqency or move on.

If you can't really tell the difference - whether it's better or worse - seeing her more frequently, probably time to reduce frequency and spread your hobbying dollar around a bit. Gain a wider variety of experience.

If it gets better the more often / frequently you see her, go for it

new talent as well as see ladies I have formed a connection with.  There is no magic formula.  

It kinda goes in streaks depending where I will be traveling when the need arises and the budget allows.

but both of us knew it was temporary.  I've often found that service falls off with too frequent visits...  or with my going exclusive to an ATF.  My impression is that she takes me for granted...  
I do like repeat visits with Favorite ladies but I rotate them.  I like to mix in an occasional candidate for a new Fav.  More often than not, she does not become a Favorite, but a few have.  
It's better to mix it up a little than to burn out with one & then not be able to see her at all.
I do find I have the best time with Favs because we already know each other & each other's likes.

Best Wishes,
skb

some are mothly a few times a yr their once or twice a yr business conference here in Boston, once or twice a week on a few as well.
I like them like time with them and as long as no lines get crossed and no one misunderstanding on whats really going on here I am all for it. Prefer regs over only new clients. A healthy mix of both keeps it fresh and interesting.

Pretty excessive but I'm glad I did it because she retired soon after.

7 times in 2 weeks, did you get any discounts? And why her and not anyone else

There was one massage gal I saw every week for a period of almost a year.

It got pretty intense and the relationship took a lot of twists and turns culminating in lapses for up to a year followed by various more casual relations.  Currently, another lapse is in progress.

Overall, it's not always such a good idea to see someone too much.

Familiarity breeding contempt, and all that.

No discounts. She was with an agency so it wasn't really up to her, but I would never expect a discount anyway.

Why her? I was crazy about her. The sex was amazing and I really enjoyed her personality as well.

I also could sort of sense she wasn't going to be around much longer, and wanted to see her as much as possible while I could.

a lot of twists in the relationship during the time with her or did you do anything else outside of the providing pattern

Is once a week considered SA?

You won't get banned for visiting too much.

You get banned for being too rough, for smelling bad, for shorting the envelope, for being late and causing her scheduling problems or for being creepy.

and trampled on the barriers, so to speak.

We had a really intense chemestry, and I didn't know enough about boundary issues to resist.  It just sort of happened, as these things go.

I'm an older Budweisser guy now.

8o)

Every day, All day long, each and every month

xoxo,
Alena T. Fairchild