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For selfish reasons: Because it's more entertaining for all of us
BUT stalking you via PM to browbeat you about your scores is a bit over the top.
Block him.
So I am not completely new, I have a few reviews. Half of which were in there late 20s and the other half of which were older. I really don't know exactly how old but I am guessing early 30s to mid 40s. I tend to stick with my own age group but in general just go with the ones that have reviews that turn me on. Age doesn't really factor into it much other than I won't see someone underage obviously. I have been receiving some derogatory PMs from a hobbiest saying that I should not be giving out 9s to older women and why am I giving out such high scores. Mind you this is over all performance not looks which ranged from 7 to 8. Personally I think the best age for women is mid 30s since they still have a rockin body, they have the experience to know what to do with it and they are at their sexual peak but that's just me. I originally thought that maybe he saw someone I had reviewed and had a bad experience or something but his recent reviews of like 6 and 7 did not match anyone I have seen. His first few reviews from a few years back are mostly 9 and 10 which makes me think he is just getting bitter towards women or something. I have not responded and normally don't respond to what is sure to be an obvious flame wars but this guy just really ticks me off so what do you think should I ...
1) Do nothing
2) Call him out on the local forum for the bully he is
3) Foreword his PMs to the providers that he thinks should not get 9s
4) Reply to his PM and let him know he is an asshole
5) Dump my TER account and try to get a girl friend. Aka "Get a Life." Hehe :
BUT stalking you via PM to browbeat you about your scores is a bit over the top.
Your response to this will depend on a couple of things. Do you shy from confrontation or do you thrive on it? If you shy from it, I would say your best bet would be to simply put him on ignore, IOW basically do nothing. OTOH If you are the kind of guy who doesn't mind a bit of drama in your life, feel free to call him out both publicly and privately for the asshole that he is.
One thing to keep in mind, he most likely will be one of those kind of guys who will thrive on a "board fight" and he most likely will have buddies who will side with him. If you do call him out, be prepared to have to deal with him for some time to come, but rest assured that there will also be a lot of people in your camp as well.
I personally usually side with his point of view regarding "easy scoring" but actually going to the extreme of PMing you to berate you about performance scores, where you and the lady are the only ones privvy to exactly what went on behind closed doors, is going a bit too far and even an admitted asshole like me would end up taking your side.
Whatever you decide to do, good luck.
For selfish reasons: Because it's more entertaining for all of us
Your response to this will depend on a couple of things. Do you shy from confrontation or do you thrive on it? If you shy from it, I would say your best bet would be to simply put him on ignore, IOW basically do nothing. OTOH If you are the kind of guy who doesn't mind a bit of drama in your life, feel free to call him out both publicly and privately for the asshole that he is.
One thing to keep in mind, he most likely will be one of those kind of guys who will thrive on a "board fight" and he most likely will have buddies who will side with him. If you do call him out, be prepared to have to deal with him for some time to come, but rest assured that there will also be a lot of people in your camp as well.
I personally usually side with his point of view regarding "easy scoring" but actually going to the extreme of PMing you to berate you about performance scores, where you and the lady are the only ones privvy to exactly what went on behind closed doors, is going a bit too far and even an admitted asshole like me would end up taking your side.
Whatever you decide to do, good luck.
I really would like to understand what mind set behind of grade inflation. So if you pick a well know well reviewed provider who is already getting 7/8 looks and 9/10 in performance because you want the best chance for a great time. Now she has pictures so you already know what she looks like so assuming they are accurate. You see her and let say nothing major went wrong but your opinion of her looks and performance is just average. Are you saying that you should give her a 5/5. Be a man and take the pending drama that will surely follow all in the name of honesty? IMO 90% of how good a time you have is your own mental attitude.
and tell the "asshole" to write his own reviews and not worry about yours. Ignore the PM's. Move on. No bully behind a PM can force you to do anything, can they
I am not a VIP member so none of those pm's were from me. Whew!
Now, to address your point...what you might have here is a BSCHCHBJ, which is rare, but does happen on occasion.
No need to take his macho b.s. I think you should just ignore him.
As for his switch to lower scores, I don't see bitterness there, I see honesty, so don't sweat that.
Keep us posted noob.
-- Modified on 5/1/2014 11:07:26 PM
I don't agree with some of your inflated scoring of those men and ladies you've seen. Also, The ladies you've seen are way too young for me. I only see girls 19 and above.
your dates.. Bullies exists in both parties (providers stalking reviewers for the 10/10s, personal vendettas from the side of the reviewers, I have seen it all). If your experience was pleasant with an older woman, younger woman or anyone you select to spend your time with, why would someone try to manipulate their ratings? Something smells very fishy here.. in fact I wouldn't totally discount it may be personal...
Always remember, reviews are YOUR point of view, they document your experience, as long as you stick to the truth and grade them fairly, it is quite distasteful to be getting those PMS...
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.. a 6/7 to someone could be a 10/10 to someone else right?
Plus can't discount chemistry either....each experience is unique..just sad to see that some people have such evil heart....
...It's your experience. Review and rate it the way you see it. You even mentioned that the PM'er hadn't seen any of the ladies you reviewed. He's basing this on their age only and the performance not the appearance. Clearly clueless in my opinion.
Pay him no mind. Not really worth responding to.
I'm not being PM'd, but here's what happens.
I carefully research available providers. I am aware of their ratings, past reviews, and I'm fairly convinced that the woman looks and sounds like someone I'll truly enjoy being with. I assume we all do this to a greater or lesser degree.
So, when I see the provider, I usually have a great time. AND, I find the woman attractive (unless her pics are not accurate), so I leave remembering that I visited a beautiful woman who treated me really well.
So, I decide to write a review on this wonderful experience that I still treasure in my heart, with a big smile still on my face. Then... Whoops! All this talk about inflated scores! I'd better take a cold hard look at this! Was she REALLY that attractive? Did I REALLY have such a good time? Or, as the bullies and women-haters suggest, am I just a mangina who's so afraid of what the woman will do if I give her a low...? Well, you get it.
So, unless you deliberately decide to spend some time and money on women who you have ABSOLUTELY no desire to play with, AND who you KNOW you won't enjoy being with, so that you can pan their performance and win the good graces of the boys on the boards, you're screwed.
You decide which way you want to go
tell the guy to fuck off and get a life.
Don't dignify his BS by engaging in any discussion of it.
It's really none of his business how you decide to score.
-- Modified on 5/1/2014 10:00:02 PM
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