I'm curious, is a 2hr session worth it when dealing with a no rush provider. The impression I am getting is a non rush provider you could see somewhere between 1hr 15min to 1hr 30min, maybe a little more or less depending yet for a 2 hour session is it similar or would you expect to be leaving closer to 2 hr? I like having a couple of turns at bat but am wondering if the extra hour is another hit or 2 or just warming the bench?

A one hour session with a no-rush provider means you get a full hour of her time, and not just 30-45 minutes.  If you want or need additional time over sixty minutes, be prepared to request and pay for it.

But scheduling an hour appointment with the intention of staying 1:15 to 1:30 and getting 'free time' is akin to stealing, and most providers won't let you get away with it.

Some girls give half-hour sessions too.See if you can book her for 1 1/2 hrs.

When a gentleman schedules two hours with me, I always try to make sure he has two hours of uninterrupted time.

Although it might be true that I have been known to go over the time frame agreed upon, a hobbyist should not "expect" a provider to maintain this as her patterned behavior.

I appreciate the comment that likens it to stealing. Besides... if I have a client that has enjoyed our time together to the extent that he didn't keep up with the clock then surely he would be inclined to leave a tip behind.

Deliberately manipulating a providers time will usually result in her suddenly being unavailable, even with adequate notice, to schedule time with you.

As I previously stated, I have no problem when an appointment runs over the anticipated time, but if I am led to believe a client deliberately extended his presence.... then I just simply will not schedule another appointment with him.

No confrontation, no problem...... just no more appointments. (*I try to keep it simple*) I look at it as disrespectful to my time & to the value of my services, I do not have any desire to spend time w/men who are disrespectful towards me or my time.       kisses.... ~Tori

Two or more hours is the better way to go. If you like foreplay, the extra time allows you to explore a little or take a little more time on something you or she are really enjoying before moving onto the main event.

I'd only do one hour if I'm a bit leery (no reviews, possible scam, etc.) and I want to make sure she's legit before committing to a longer stay. Otherwise, I'd prefer that both parties relax and stay awhile, particularly if she's cool with a second cup.

Also, it's good to have some tip money handy either as insurance for bonus time or just to thank her for doing a great job. I don't want to feel like one more bolt on her assembly line and am willing to give a little extra to avoid such treatment.

If you want more than an hour, you should schedule the amount of time you want to spend with the provider, and not 'expect' additional time just because she provides unrushed sessions.

I had a client who I'd gone a bit over with the first time we got together. The second time (he only scheduled 30 minutes), he requested a service that I felt would require more than the 30 minutes he'd scheduled. I let him this and gave him the option of extending his time. His reply-"But you say you don't rush..." I don't rush, but I also don't agree to purposely go beyond the time scheduled.

Not to hijack the thread, but just don't expect more than you are willing to pay for. If you do happen to get extra time, don't assume that you always will. Ask about 90 sessions if you don't think an hour will be enought, but don't think you'll need 2 hours.

It is probably worth it to go for the 2hr.

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I appreciate the replies, but I believe I was misunderstood. I don’t mind paying for 2 hours or more, if there is value in the extra time. I enjoy the idea of getting to know someone first, and I just haven’t done a one hour session yet. I wanted to make sure that I wasn’t paying double if I wasn’t getting double the time.

When I first started, I only did one hour dates.  I found myself wanting to spend more time and not rush so much.  I chose ladies for their intelligence and interest, as well as sensuality.  It is personal preference but I always enjoyed the 2 hours more.

Didn't realize I was being condescending...Not intended if that's how it came across, but I stick to my original reply.

...I'm a newbie myself, after all...

Jasinda, my reply was directed at garp304's message before he deleted it, not yours.

An hour paid for is not the same as an hour on the clock...  In my experience - I see "low volume" providers - an hour paid for on one day may last 2 hours if we get talking or she seems to want to hang out.  On another day it might even be less than 60 minutes if she has other things to do after, is tired or "done" with me for the day - or I have to split.  Don't expect more than what you pay for (I typically book 1.5-2 hours) but be grateful when you get it.  Sometimes she wants to talk or just be held after - I don't know sometimes when we are off the clock.  Try to pick up her cues.  Don't wear out your welcome.  Leave before she wishes you were gone.  If talking turns into more play time then offer to pay more or just tip or, when thinking about it later, send her an e-gift card.  You want her to... want to see you again.  Even if it is just a fantasy and it IS all about the $ I like feeling that she is happy to see me again.  It's the GFE that lingers.