I tried using a countdown clock app on my phone but it seems pretty tacky.
I don't wear a watch, so it also seems ruin the mood to grab my phone to just to check the time during the session. How do you guys go about keeping the track of the time?
I tried using a countdown clock app on my phone but it seems pretty tacky.
Like a NASA countdown, yeah? You're right, that's tacky. So don't do it.
Posted By: WhiteApple
I don't wear a watch, so it also seems ruin the mood to grab my phone to just to check the time during the session.
Yep, that's a definite mood-killer. So don't do it.
Posted By: WhiteApple
How do you guys go about keeping the track of the time?
A clock-radio is standard equipment in most hotel rooms. But why are you so worried about the time. Are you so lonely that you need to squeeze every minute out of a session? If it's her incall, leave early. She'll appreciate that & will want to see you again. If it's your room, don't mention the time at all. Near the end of a session, If she asks about the time, tell her she can leave whenever she wants. That's you being confident. That's you with a life outside of the hobby.
Try making the experience fun for her--music, drinks, etc. She might want to stay past the hour. Stranger things have happened. --
...there will be a clock somewhere in the room. Just glance at it once in a while. Check what time she arrived if it's outcall (she comes to where you are). If you go where she is (incall) she will have a clock. She will be aware of the time.
You don't need a timer just know what time you were set for (EX: 1 hour from 1p.m. to 2 p.m.) Be on time and check the clock occasionally and leave on time.
and gals need be good at discreet time management. The only way it might become your responsibility is if she provided outcall to your location. Gals often use music tracks timed. I've had situations where I could not see a clock but after several visits with her, noticed a small clock was discreetly moved to what ever room we played in... on a mantle, on a book shelf. I have occasionally come up for air & having lost all track of time, had to move to see the bed side clock (she had turned the glaring LED bedside clock so it wasn't easy to view).
Unless you have somewhere to be or if you have to go back to work, it's the provider's job to keep track of time. If you both are having a great time and the conversation is flowing, she won't be too concerned about leaving so quickly. She may reward you with extra time if you were a gentleman and if the chemistry is there, so don't shoot yourself in the foot by excusing yourself on time.
are clicking and the vibe and energy is good, then I am not that worried... We will be done when we are done...
Now if I have somewhere to be, or my time window is short, then I will have to be more AWARE.. But I have NEVER EVER straight up said, time is up lol
I saw one my ATF clients a few weeks ago, well we put on some of my kinky porn lol, we got to playing, then foreplay, then watch and more of the above...
He booked a 90min and when he had left, it was 4.5 hrs! OMFG!
We BOTH had no CLUE we had gone that much over LOL
Also just THIS WEEK I saw a wonderful guy from TER, and I was able to see him late at night for a 90min
He was flying out the next AM
Well he got to me around 11:15p
We stopped at 2:30a!!!
lol
so ya know, if I keep track, I do... if I dont, then that means I am having a TRULY great time!
Trust me, there are times that I DEFINITELY am aware of the time..
I personally am a "clockwatcher". I guess because prior to joining TER I was seeing agency ladies and a few times we'd get the "call" because we were running over. Now, even though I've been seeing indy ladies I still have this worry/guilt about her time and if I can't see the clock I will ask her "how are we doing on the time?" Kinda dumb of me - no? Because when I think about it, she may perceive this as me being "tired of her" and wanting the session to end. (BTW- these are all incalls)
They were enjoying my time (not tired of me), but wanted to make sure we were still good on time and that it was ok that we were going over.
I think the men should always be cognizant of time too b/c some women aren't good at speaking up and saying hit the road when you've worn out your welcome w/ her or they get nervous about getting a bad review for being a clock watcher. This is why it's good for guys to leave OTC comments off the boards, b/c a gal will have a guest who assumes she will do the same for him and it creates an ackward situation. This is also why i'd never promote the fact I go over hours w/ clients.
I'm amazed at how many guys don't think first before writing some of the stuff they write. Not just about the OTC they received but also about some service they received that is not standard on her profile or previous reviews. I guess its more about "self-bragging" like "I was so great she gave me an extra hour" or "she gave me CIM". Maybe they don't realize the potential problems they are creating for that lady.
and I will mock hurt in my voice and say Wow! I will have to sadly let gals know in my review that that you are a clock watcher AND you are rushing me lol
then they loosen up a bit
If I like a guy, you will not see clock PLUS I will even tell you I set it 10min fast lol
Now if I am not feeling the vibe with you, then you will see the clock, however you still wont see me look at it, I will NEVER you that time ir is
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