Just thought you might like to hear from an actual provider on this.
Posted By: ss_jenz
I'm imagining the 2 call system is so that they can make you wait a bit if another appointment is running long, possibly it's to keep an eye out for you if there's trouble or something. Possibly it's also to avoid giving out their address specifics until they know you're actually there to limit who knows. Am I close?
As Xyz confirmed, we don't want to give out our address until the day-of and yes, it's so people don't have it till they actually need it.
Yes, occasionally a previous date will run over the amount of time allotted as a cushion between scheduled callers.
Not giving out the hotel room or apartment number until we're ready for our next guest assures that no one is made to feel uncomfortable in that situation.
However.....what really is more likely to happen is that if I give my room number out to someone when he confirms, then he may wind up knocking on my door 15-20min early, thinking that's okay.
Also, many ladies prefer you not to knock on their doors: they'll watch through the peephole for you and open the door as you approach. This minimizes the amount of coming-and-going noise that can be detected by neighbors and housekeeping. To do that, we need to know when you're actually on your way up.
Posted By: ss_jenz
Ducking out for a bit and leaving you alone I imagine is to verify the donation, and maybe occasionally to give you privacy. Probably also so that you make the first move (getting naked) and if they come back and you're still clothed or have underwear on they can proceed with caution in case you're trying to bust them.
Am I somewhat understanding all this?
First: I don't particularly care for the phrase you used (ducking out), as it suggests something sneaky going on.
Please look up the definition of the phrase prior to disagreeing with me on that one.
Perhaps it would be more correct to say that the ladies excuse themselves from the room for a moment or two.
I've worked for a couple of agencies/services where that was the standard procedure: show the client to the bedroom, then leave the room to count the donation and check in with them. With one agency we were to also then deposit the donation into a drop-box style safe. We got paid out at the end of our shifts.
Nowadays, my preferred way of handling this is to have my client set down the donation and then he is to go to the restroom to wash his hands. That is when I check the donation, put it away, turn off my cell phone, etc.
Some independent ladies even have a partner or other person watching out for them, and they check-in and out with that individual.
With a massage-style place I worked for very briefly, we were to leave the room for the same reasons as above, but also instruct the gentleman to make himself "completely comfortable"......... there was even a peep-hole to check that he was indeed naked and either wrapped in the provided towel or already lying face-down on the table. I never asked them why this was the procedure so your guess is as good as mine.
I've only known a couple ladies who did this on their own: one, because she believed that LE wouldn't get naked so this was an additional "check" on top of the screening.
With the other, it was her habit to strip down to lingerie (after checking & securing the donation) and then return to the bedroom: it just made her more comfortable if he was either mostly or fully naked at that time.
Hope that all helps a little! You're already on the right track by coming here to ask questions; please continue to do so!
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