Seriously, guys? When I was 18 years old, I could sometimes manage to recover and go for seconds in an hour's time, but my trigger pulled a little quicker during the first go-round in those days too! I am amazed at all the talk about second cups and going for a third in 1 hour's time that I've read in reviews. Wow, seriously? Am I just middle-aged (okay, yeah, I am) or is some bullshit going on here? In an hour's time, a single satisfying start-to-finish session is all this ol' boy is ever going to have, I'm pretty sure. (But, OMG, how good it is to me!)
I read a review a few days ago of a guy who gave a provider 13 orgasms in a 1 hr appointment.
What do you think the odds are on that one?
But reviews DO have an element of fantasy.
I was still in my mid-forites, but I credit the masseuse for that. She was a technician par excelence.
Now that I'm in my late fifties, I could still get off twice in an hour if I decided to get down to business and get off in the first ten minutes, then rest for about thirty and squeeze off the last shot in the remaining fifteen minutes before I need to clean up and go.
But I choose not to. I'd rather let the experience stretch and take up to thrity or forty minutes and really enjoy it.
Quality, not quanitity, is my watchword with sex, as with many things in life.
She was a squirter, so there was evidence to support the theory. Honestly, it started to lose it's thrill once it started to resemble fucking in a swamp.
I don't claim a lot of responsibility because once she started, looking in her direction seemed to be all that was required. For the record, she seemed to win the "who had more" contest...by a LOT!
Such things are no doubt the exception but pretty darned impressive!
Well I am past middle age and I have gotten two off in a 1 hour session, but it has to be all about me, no GFE no cuddling just get it off recover and repeat. Not really satisfying for a satisfying session with mutual fun 90 minutes is needed.
I guess there is some BS, but in my case I'm able to do that depending on my physical status. When my physical status was worse, even 2hr appt didn't allow me to do the second. Just in case, I'm middle aged too.
I book 1.5 hr appointments when ever I can... I'm there to enjoy the journey as much as the destination. Almost 60, I only get one pop but it's a good one.
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Ok, truth be told, I would estimate that perhaps no more than 10% of my single hour appointments involve two cups. More often, its one really good cup, and at least an attempt at a second round (Hey, its still alot of fun trying, even if I can't get him across the finish line a second time).
I have suggested several times that TER include session length as part of the review. It could go right up at the top alongside attitude, appearance, atmosphere, etc.
Alot of those multi pop reviews you are reading were undoubtedly reviews of multi hour sessions, not single hour encounters. If the session length were included as part of the review, it would prevent this confusion.
I have on occasion come twice in a 1 hour appointment but I don't think it's necessarily preferable. I would rather last longer and come towards the end which is what usually happens.
that I don't ask for 1 hour appointments. With me, it just ain't gonna happen. Sometimes it won't happen in a 2 hour appointment. My favorite is a dinner date. That way, we can start out with some playtime, go and have a nice dinner, then return for dessert. Two cups of coffee is nice, but I like some cream and sugar too.
to build up the anticipation with great company and some foreplay under the table...hehe...and of course a nice glass or 2 of wine...sounds like a hot time to me...
There are a couple of gals out there who can take sixty minutes and turn them into a non stop blur of sensory overload and with them, two pops at my age and medical condition is usually no problem.
With the gals that make it clear they are only there for the envelope, one is sometimes difficult.
prefer 90 minutes or 2-hrs. if I have the time.
Visited with a gentleman that popped 4 times in one hour!!
Let's just say... I was floored, tired, happy... and well, I am still shaking my head!
It is a common occurrence for him and he is in his late 40's. He said that he never goes soft or feels even remotely satisfied until he has popped 2x.
~Nena
sgrgirl4u if i ever make it out to portland i am coming to see you LOL
It was his head you were shaking.
Thank you
2010 = 28
Where he and I were having sooo much fun...he never got soft and popped 3 times in an hour...Me, well...I lost count as to how many I had.....
That was beyond fun....
I'm eyeballing 50. Two is not uncommon and I have had three, or nearly three, several times.
It does depend on the lady and several factors....
I tend to let the first one go fairly quickly to make time for the others. Second, I have no compunctions about aiding and abetting the lady to make it happen (in fact I kinda like to).
Sonya & Ashley were the only ones to get a true three cups in an hour session out of me, with no assistance from me. GO GIRLS!
Even though I book an hour, the sessions that I have reviewed tend to run a little over the time allotted. Good research, some up-front communication and reassurance that she's "not a clock watcher" set the stage for fun. With a more relaxed mindset, an emphasis on both of having a great time and me making sure that she has some attention paid to her needs -- well, time seems irrelevant and two rounds to completion within 90 minutes or so have happened.
Yes, I do make sure to bring a little additional gift along to show my appreciation (some nice wine, for example) and the ultimate compliment --a second session a few weeks later. Even in my mid-50s, good things happen to he who has patience and the right attitude.
what wine do you usually bring? Ican't seem to find a good brand of wine yet
I'll bring whatever she likes (assuming we can email once or twice before the session). If that's not possible, I bring a chilled Kendall-Jackson Chard (safe and universally liked if she's into white wine) and a nice Pinot Noir to cover the other side of the wine spectrum. If a woman likes red, she'll love a nice Pinot --07 or 08 Meomi by Belle Glos (Chuck Wagner's lighter side) is excellent and reasonably priced at $22-$28.
In all honesty, in answer to the questions, I don't know that ALL of those multiple pops are happening in 1 hour appts, but a lot are. Reviews on some boards do specify the length of the appointment and some reviewers mention time in the text of their reviews.
It's not the multiples during longer dates that surprise me and I definitely can appreciate why many guys prefer them.
Obviously, we're all wired a little differently. In the world of tortoises and hares, I've always been a tortoise. To the fellow who mentioned it being about the journey more than the destination, I'm with you, brother!
There are some guys who will only book for one hour. A lot of them CAN'T come twice in an hour - they really need maybe 1.5 or 2. They end up overstaying.
If a client going for Round 2 is telling me that he is "so close" - when we've already gone over the hour by 10 minutes - it really puts me in a bind. If I don't want to be labeled as "too businesslike" or "a clock-watcher" then I have to make it clear that I will "go the extra mile" to see that they leave happy. Eventually, if too much time elapses (a half hour or more) then I feel comfortable making an excuse - I have to go to class, do this, go here, etc. Whether they are able to pop twice or not, most of these guys don't apologize for taking up my time, and don't tip.
I'm sorry but, these men are my worst nightmare. You can usually tell towards the end of the paid time those that are angling for this and I stop no matter what. They make a habit of this behavior and as you mentioned, never acknowledge your generosity or tip.
As far as being labeled a clock watcher...not the correct term even though it's used way out of context 99% of the time. IMHO, clock watching is when the lady constantly checks the time during the session and is not focused on the client but on getting him done.
These men are time abusers in my book and like ladies who misrepresent themselves (guys should walk with no compensation), should be told to leave on time.
They are definitely my worst nightmare too! It makes me crabby, and the nice men who do respect my time don't deserve crabbiness. I wish I could put my foot down but I'm always afraid I'll get a bad review, or bad word-of-mouth. Mostly, I just don't repeat with these men, but getting taken advantage of, and feeling like I can't say anything, really eats away at me sometimes.
You're right, the term "clock-watcher" doesn't really fit here. I never thought of it that way. I guess I just had an image in mind of me saying, "sorry, time's up!" as the minute hand hit the top.
As in, I have to 'go the extra mile' so that they can 'forget it was a service.' So I feel like I have to let myself be taken advantage of, and send them away happy, or risk getting a 7 or below?
If the review system is having that effect on you, to where you feel you have to allow certain behaviors that make you feel as if you're being taken advantage of, I'd have to seriously consider if getting reviewed was healthy for me.
NEVER let anyone push your boundaries...bad review or not. You have to look at yourself in the mirror long after you have left this business and believe me I have seen this biz do a number on some ladies and their self esteem.
Ask yourself this question...would you let any other person treat you like that? If the answer is no, then don't let a stranger get away with that which makes you uncomfortable.
This is where the review system hurts some of the ladies. It's sad but a fact of life. You are effectively letting a very small group of men rule the way you run your business...to hell with them I say and grow some ovaries and stand up for yourself...because no-one else will. You can work comfortably and see great guys and still get reviewed and not be taken advantage of.
put up with this lack of consideration for your time. I saw a lady several times (since out of the biz) who would always get up from the bed (as we were winding down, cuddling, smooching, etc. in the afterglow) and put her robe on. That was my signal that the time was up. A shower was offered and then I was on my way.
Even when going for multiple pops, I am a bad clock watcher (client)... I never want to overstay an appointment unless explicitly asked by the lady. I always try to wrap it up a few minutes early, which can sometimes seem like cumming and then going...
Sorry for that 
All guys are different, but I would suggest finding a discrete way to time the session. The part you will struggle with, and we cannot help is, if there is ten minutes left and he says he is close, what do you do... Some are truly close, and some will never be.
The reality is this, though... If you provided a good service and they're the kind of client you want to see again, they probably will understand the time boundary (this does cut both ways, and sessions need to start on time). If they get too cranky, did you really want to see them again anyway???
Many ladies use subtile cues (music tracks) or even hidden clocks (I saw after many dates) to keep things moving along... Great providers at so because of time management.
I also saw an elegant provider who rose from our afterglow & donned an elegant silk robe... she stayed with me while I dressed. I look forward to out next meeting.
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talking about the same girl in Ft. Lauderdale? If so, she was awesome, nice tan, long legs, nice natural breasts (later enhanced just a bit), etc.
Honestly its 50/50 with the appts that get one pop, and the ones that get 2.
It is like 2percent of guys that can pop a 3rd time, or who will even try if in an hour there is time to try or to get a 3rd one out. I read many reviews that say they popped 3 times and I think to myself that its BS.
But I also tend to book for 90 minutes to 2 hours as well