After several years of thinking about it, I finally took the plunge and saw a SP. I was out of town and thanks to all the wonderful advice on the discussion boards, had an amazing experience.
I thought I'd only take advantedge of this hobby when I was out of town, however, I don't go out of town too often and now that I've tasted the juice...I need more. I've been looking at what's available in my back yard and I want/need to hook up with a few local providers. What do you guys do who have families and have little free time? How do you plan ahead and find an hour or two to go do what you need to do? Do you leave work early and sneak in a quickie before you go home? Assuming you do your due diligence, do you find a provider with a nice incall that's not too far away? Do you bite the bullet and pay for a room at a local hotel? Any thoughts or suggestions?
Eighteen holes of golf with a couple of drinks afterwards, kills five hours easily. Enough time to get where you need to be and get done what needs to be done. And since I am usually a 'walk-on' at the course, with no reservation and always pay cash. No names are recorded. And when you are a 'walk-on' you get hooked up with whoever else is trying to get on, usually strangers. No need for anyone to provide a cover story. (Just don't forget to take your clubs!)
When I was married and had little kids around the house, I had to do my hobbying during the day. I am lucky to work in a business where I need to go out frequently and visit jobsites, thus affording the opportunity to schedule a visit with someone in the middle of the work day.
On occasion I would get a hotel room because I saw a few gals who did not have incall, but usually I did incalls. Often I would go to an MP.
One thing to try and avoid is smiling too much at the office when you come back from a date. Someone once told me that people knew what I was doing because I was always in such a good mood after coming back from a "meeting".
Now that I am divorced and the kids are out of the house, I hobby on the weekends which I find much more enjoyable as I don't have the pressure of getting back to the office on my mind, or having to worry that my cell phone will go off in the middle of a session.
If you are tied to a desk, you can always use the "I had to work late tonight" excuse, but don't over do it. Wives can become suspicious. You can also tell the boss you have a physical or a dental appointment and try to sneak in some time that way.
Being out of town on business was great...as you said, no pressure to get back to the office, cell phone, etc. You can even that fresh smell of kitty linger on your face and body a little longer! It appears I'm going to have a few more business meetings during the day and night this year. I guess I'll have to learn to enjoy the "quickies", and save the longer, more relaxing appointments for those several times of year I'm free. It's all good! Thx.
The more lies you tell, and the more people that are involved, the more difficult you will find it to keep your lies straight. Don't set up elaborate scenarios for lies that may get you into trouble.
- Don't use golf as a cover, and then come home smelling fresh - unless you are a club member and routinely shower after your rounds - Don't use the health club as an excuse, and then come home with your workout clothes still clean - Don't use "going out with the boys" as an excuse EVER. Why risk that one of your boys calls your home looking for you, when you're supposed to be with him? - Don't lie to your bosses at work. Why put your job in jeopardy? Don't tell your boss you have a dentist appointment, for example. What will you say when you have a real dentist appointment a month later?
Now you guys see why Massage Parlors are so popular. A guy can pop in and spend 30-45 minutes and not arouse any suspicion. This can fit into a lunch hour, or on the way home from work. Also, the girls that allow 30-minute sessions are useful to us married guys as well.
If you're trying to fit in a 3-hour elaborate escort session, forget it. Leave that to the out of town trips, or when the wife is out of town.
That is ALWAYS my busiest time of the day. I miss a lot of appointments due to the fact that "lunch" is usually only take between noon and two. There should be more lunch hours in the day. If I were a married man engaging in this activity I would never book outcall, only incall unless I was already traveling. Who needs a paper trail?
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