Some guys will get you gifts even on 1st session; some may not get it even on 10th session....Some may do it on occasion..
What you have on wish list doesn't mean much to seasoned guys... With newbies its a whole different ballgame...
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Some will say it's presumptive, and others don't give a darn because they won't look at it anyway. Personally I find them tacky, but that is only my opinion. I think it is better to just toss in a few lines about the things you enjoy and would like to SHARE with the suitors who visit you. For instance, "If you'd like to bring a nice bottle of wine, I enjoy reds, and if you prefer Champagne, I will gladly bring the strawberries."
It is a way to let guys know what you would truly enjoy, without asking for a damn house from a guy you've never met. Most guys who do bring gifts, will ASK you what you might like. They don't need a page full of expensive shit, like a damn bridal registry.
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Many providers have wish lists on their websites, as many of their clients like to bring gift. Knowing what they like is a big help to us. Ladies also mostly say that gifts are not expected, but always appreciated.
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That is what the newbie board is for.
As for gift lists/ wish lists, some find them tacky and some don't. I think as long as you don't have very large items (cars, houses, etc.--yes I have seen those on some girls sites) and as long as you don't make it sound like a requirement to bring a gift, then it is fine to have a gift list. Some hobbyists will bring gifts anyway, and some never do, so for the ones who do wish to bring something it is better to have an idea of what you like, rather than bringing something you are allergic to or will just throw away.
You can say something like, "Gifts are never expected but are appreciated. If you do wish to bring something, here are a few things I like:"
Then you can list some things you like, or even list things you dont like or are allergic to etc.
A note on the house/car thing: I have no problem with a wealthy hobbyist gifting a provider a home or a car, but I do think a provider listing those types of items on her gift list is rather tacky and presumptious
To have an "induldge me" or "pamper me" page is the fucking height of arrogance. Who buys presents for people they have NEVER met before? Especially when they are handing THEM $300 or $400 an hour? But what two people want to do is none of my biz.
But there is a more tactful way to handle. The John should just contact you PRIVATELY by pm or mail and ask you. And you can reply, PRIVATELY with your wish list. But to hang it out there for the world to see as if to say "Buy for me people!!!!!! ME!!!!!! Its all about me"!!!!!!!!!! Tacky tacky tacky...........ugh!
If guys like to bring gifts, it's helpful to know what she likes. I always bring a VS gift card and some candles. Never had a complaint so far.
Swim
Didnt say it was tacky to bring a gift. Said it was tacky for the OP to put it on her website. My post said you should handle the gift stuff privately by email. The "pamper me" shit makes the girl look unprofessional, shallow and its presumptive in nature. All of which is the very definition of tacky.
This is the newbie board where inexperienced people are looking for good advice.
You are just giving her your opinion - you are personally offended or put off by providers "gift" pages.
Many guys like to bring a gift as it solidifies the GFE illusion in their mind, and many guys would LIKE to know what to bring, rather than to bring something useless and unwanted - not to mention the fact that the provider doesn't want a bunch of stuff that she will have to pretend she likes and then throw away. And the whole point of having a website is to offer a reference so she doesn't HAVE to answer a million questions via phone or email.
The fact is that many, many providers have gift pages and many hobbyists appreciate it. Those who don't can simply choose not to click on that page.
Kids make Christmas lists. People share with each other what they want for their birthday. Brides register. Why can't a hooker make a list too? Especially a nice, polite one with gifts in all different price ranges, with a disclaimer that says something like "gifts are never required and always appreciated?"
I've never seen one that said "Buy this for me, bitch!"
In all the instances you cite, the "lists" are in lieu of a large cash donation. Thats why this is different. This is in ADDIITON to a large cash exchange. It would be the equivalent of someone saying I'd you ot get me a nice birthday gift AND $400 in cash. But only if you wish! Gag! Taaaaaaaaaaaaaaacky!
Many, many people leave their Christmas lights up all year long too. B/c alot of people do something, doesnt mean it is less tacky.
And dont lecture me as to "where I am." I am quite aware. And YOU dont like my advice, fine. That doesnt make it bad. it makes it different than the mainstream maybe, but not bad.
There you go. You ALWAYS bring a gift card and candles and never had a complaint. Do you need a wish list to tell you that? I think not.
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putting a wish list on your website is optional..your client's use of it is optional..giving your clients great sex is not optional..
Posted By: MsArlottePhoenix
Is it consider rude to have a gift/wishlist on website? Do gift/wishlist is add pressure for the hobbyist to bring a gift after seeing a provider more than twice?
as long as the gal doesn't make too big a deal about it, as to put pressure on the client.
It is absurd to bring a gal a box of chocolates if she is trying to keep her weight down, and likewise it is absurd to bring a plant she'll be allergic to.
Many clients like to break the ice with a nice gift. I bring a piece of jewelry (Never heard a negative comment about jewelry, by the way.)
If however, a gal says she is into Amazon gift cards, then that's what I'll do.
Think of it as a sort of gift registry.
I would have one but make it discreet. Maybe mention things you like in parts of your site where you talk about yourself, like the "about me" page or your bio. Don't put a specific link to it in your site menu, to me that is just a pinch obvious. Never put the wish list on your compensation page!! I have seen that and I do believe it is tacky. Bury your list in a place where a client who is interested will find it, but where the ones who are not never have to know it is there.
And for help in deciding whose advice to follow, just do a search on the GD board on the usernames of those who have offered advice, and tailor your decisions to those who exemplify someone you'd prefer to see. 
Best of luck!!
