I thought the NYC board would be a good place to ask this question, given some of the high end ladies in this town.
Once in a while a splurge is fun. But, what happens when the high end girl you want to splurge on checks your refs and the refs see that you are planning to spend 2-3 times more on some other girl than you've ever spent on them. Do you guys worry that the next time you see one of your regulars she'll be resentful of what you were willing to spend on the other girl?
Do the ladies have thoughts on this?

Each female in this business is her own boss. She charges what SHE wants. I would never judge a client on how much he spent on other women. It has nothing to do with me. I do what satifies me and she does what satifies her.

I doubt there is a woman in this business who is that paranoid about what a client spent on another girl..

but hey, thats me.. and I am sure I am not alone in this thinking.

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Every lady sets their own rate - the lower-rate ladies have made an educated decision to charge their rate, and they have the freedom to raise their rates at any time. If I found a client had splurged on a more expensive date, it wouldn't bother me at all. Variety is the spice of life!

I do believe many men share your dilemma op.

I don't like references myself and find the whole process rather messy, but I still receive them without asking.
For the most part the reference always has a similar fee structure, which I assume is not by accident on the Gentleman's part.

The only time I can see a lady being slighted is if she is not fully satisfied with her fee structure.

And now I cant see you. Are you sure it wouldnt bother you at all? lol. Just messing!

Then you shouldn't be patronizing them anyway.  The reason we pay pros for sex is because they're (theoretically) very good at indulging, and because you can go out and stick your dick wherever else you like without catching any grief at all over it.  

If some chick gives you a hard time about it, tell her you'll stop paying other girls when she takes her reviews down and stop seeing other johns.

and let me share how - yes Iam escort and reviewed  as 33 nice reviews .. yet .. I still not accepting totally business  mentality
I know for sure - high end women  are paid  NOT for services .. they DO NOT structure fees .. as on menu .. they  have  feelings to men they see .. and  a bit yes a bit of character as may be yet jealousy to him.. man wants be LOVED  ..  and it is what makes him happy .. when he is with you it is what for he pays to high end escort- NOT FOR  not inspiring services ..
so I may be getting  out my secretes how I  have my lovers but My lovers  come to me back if I am reasonably  jealous -  that mean I want him and ONLY him for this evening .. or few hours .
you know men are .. humans.. they  have feelings.. they want be loved as they dream .. dirty naughty wet  but loved while she with him .. if you talk about .. business .. yalk   why  he need donate 1000 .. there  a lot of 200 for that .. for pussy ?? ha ha ha any animal has  gentiles .. it is not what for donated trully high end esorts .. ah sorry  if I said more then needed

You said that  out loud ....

hmmm..... with my above average  sex drive  and abilities .. I still  believe that Iam appreciated for who I am.. so am I mistaken? it is all about .... menu and services .. boys and girls ..or it is about adult fan and intimate time ?
Let me share  what I saw in one bar,.. and I my god .. I can relate to such .. .. so  nigh club was full of sex tigress in short shiny skirts /dresses t so you can see almost her bit cheeks . high hills  and big big chests.. I dd not pay attention to  the faces .. but there I spotted  a young couple .. he was dress in jeans  
white shirt  and business  type jacket  next to him was seems gray kind of skinny girl in long black dress
..  first what I started to think it is - omg he possibly wants those women .. but he even did not looked once away from his companion ..   he was allin her .. i started pick on them ..  girl kissed him .. she kissed him as a porno star .. claiming his lap in her long black dress  and pressing all her body against him and his hands were running by her back .. they kissed as in erotic movie .. girl was allover him ..  she was a porno star in her  dark long dress ..how she moved .. how she moaned .. how she responded him . he kissed her not stopping all eve.. she has orgasms .. I felt it ..   those  other women in shiny dresses were looked fake cheap and boring ..
I knew  now why he choose her not them ..
soo generally .. I am this girl and my clients are those who  love such women with fire in  heart and .. of course I dress a bit more .. sexier then this girl was .. but I never follow those fake superficial standards of  being   kind of symbol of porno star..   when many porno star  gave an interview . they have dead face and soooo obviously ... not inspiring.. .. fake feelings as  fake boobs .. is paying for sex is sexy .. ?? nope .. it is ... sad ..
Iam here because I just love be with man .. I crave love  and I am  a artist when I love him ..I  living my dream .. sorry somehow I can not love   real man in real life .. may be I  was born nymph  artist female .. but . bit it explains my high reviews


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tell any girls that are resentful to F*ck you better and just maybe you won't go lurking for other providers

lol jk
Kyla

But you probably make a good point, whatever it is.

You took umbrage at my phrasing it as 'paying for sex.' Kind of a small thing to harp on in the context of this thread, but I agree with your sentiment about this business, if it matters.  A courtesan should pursue a certain artistry in making a sensual connection with her clients, and for an encounter to be fully gratifying, there does need to be holistic intimacy, blah blah blah and so on and so forth. But my point wouldn't have been as curt as I desired if I'd gotten bogged down in the idealism of it all.  I'm sure you'll forgive me for taking some poetic license.  

Besides, you have to consider the audience.  Most of these fools aren't all that enlightened.  We're talking about the same crass muafuckas that get into these moronic 'supply and demand' discussions, or create ISO posts for hairy assholes.  

But I feel you.

Otherwise, it really should not matter.

With this remark alone you made me want to see you. When are you coming to NYC again? lol no joke i got a hard on reading your reply lol