I'm a fitness trainer and boxing coach looking for a provider that would be interested in trading services. I had an arrangement with someone that lasted for 5 years but she recently moved to Dallas so I'm looking for something similar. If anyone is interested shoot me a message.

You are completely out of touch with reality, ESPECIALLY for NYC.  

Unless you're a celebrity personal trainer, hourly rate for an independent personal trainer (even less for ones who work at gyms) is about what, 50-60 bucks an hour?  

Many ladies in NYC are well over 1k per hr (in Manhattan I've yet to see a lady below 500), you may get 300-500 in say long island, Westchester or white plains, but even that isn't even CLOSE to fair compensation for just a personal training session which is 50-60 bucks an hour. So for the average new York provider, you'd need to give well over 10 sessions for one "date" for it to be even compensation, which I strongly doubt you're willing to do.  

You got shit lucky with your past arrangement, you were highly spoiled and I think it clouded your judgement/expectations, but what you're asking for is not at all fair nor realistic.

-- Modified on 6/19/2021 3:32:14 PM

I agree with your points about the price - hour ratio (~10 hours of training for 1 hour of R&R). But the OP (jchorus) might see other benefits to the arrangement.
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One babe is sometimes a magnet for other babes.
One babe client is sometimes a magnet for other babe clients.
One babe client is sometimes a magnet for other male clients.  
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A babe client with him at the gym a few hours per week is a walking, talking, shaking, jiggling billboard -- I mean, BABEboard -- advertisement for his business.  
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The barter-babe can assure other women that he's a good guy and doesn't hit on his women clients because she's pretty sure, even certain, that he's getting some outside the gym. Men at the gym might ask him for intros to his babe clients and pay for a few training sessions to prove their worthiness.

As per my previous post, it's a huge benefit to him but not so much the provider. The OP is looking for escort sessions in exchange for a $50-60 per hr training session.

I, myself, never assumed -- ASSUMED! -- that the old arrangement was on a time equivalent: one hour for one hour. I always assumed that it was on a $ basis. To balance this equation:
(N hours training)($50 / hour) = (1 hour of service)($500 / hour)
N = 10 with some wiggle room.  
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My argument is that for the OP, the equation has other parameters:
(N hours training)($50 / hour) = (1 hour of service)($500 / hour) + babe attractor + customer attractor + ...
When N = 10, $500 worth of training gets $500 worth of service + intangibles worth $???
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Coming out of Covid, a lot of people probably need to lose some Covid weight and inches.  There might be some Providers looking for help to shed those extra pounds and agreeable to work a deal to their mutual benefit. I doubt that it will be one hour for one hour.